Size of Chest?

[Learn2Bsmart]

Ever since I was around twelve or thirteen, I have been somewhat overweight. Now that I am close to sixteen, I have managed my weight gain but its still noticeable. The question is, and its pointed more toward the female population, what are your opinions about guys not having flat chests? (ie. when they are overweight slightly and there is fat build up in the breasts) Should I worry about my attractiveness to the girls? Are my chances of a girl being attracted to me slimming with my chest size?

[crazyguy]

Well, honestly, I think that a girl should like you for who you are instead of what you look like. If you let them get to know you, they could still end up liking you. At my school, I've overheard some girls talking about how nice this one guy was (he held a door open or something) so just keep that in mind. But if your that woried about your appearence I suggest excercising and eating right. You could also try wearng loose shirts. Don't worry.

[blank_07]

It's really not that big of a deal.
She'll love you for you.
^^Agreed with crazyguy.
(but from a girl's perspective :D)

[RaisingSand]

I'm not going to lie ... while I agree with crazyguy and the girl should like you for who you are, not what you look like, being attracted to the person you're with is a very important part of the relationship.
By eating healthily, exercising regularly, you can lose weight, and tone your body, improving your physical health, but also your mental health, as looking better ups your self esteem. :)

[Learn2Bsmart]

Not to disagree with you all, or most but I am exercising and doing everything I can to keep or lower my weight. I love Physical Education class and I look forward to working out every day. My body just can't lose the excess fat in time, not to mention my metabolism is slow.

Bu the other things you guys and girls said is, helpful, thank you. I know that my appearance wont hinder the girls attraction to me...at least, not a whole lot anyway.

[crazyguy]

Ahh, I think I know what the problem may be. How fast do you eat? I've always been told to eat slower (I eat pretty fast) because it's unhealthy to eat fast. I think it's a metabolism related thing because I tried it one day and I was still pretty hungry after- wards. Correct me if I'm wrong since this is just a guess.

[eskimogal700]

i sometimes like guys with chests its almost like a bit of girl on girl lol

[markridesbmx]

Man who cares? Keep doing what you are doing, Eat healthy keep active and stick with it. The best thing to do is always put your best foot forward bro. If you have a great smile? Flash those pearly whites! If you have muscle then flex em'! If you have a great personality and can make a girl laugh... Then lean on that. By doing that you are always putting the best of you out there. So they will love you for you. Plus it helps you stick with it and keep with your exercise and diet!