April fools joke

[imjustlivinglife]

am I the only boy who sometimes think he mights be attracted toanother male?
well im a straight male with a girlfriend but sometimes i think i mite be gay. so anyway i wanted to tell my friend but didnt know how (i dont like him hes like a brother to me) well long story short i told him i was gay and he said he was still my friend and wouldnt nothing change,,, i was relieved but still embarrased so i told him april fools,,, a few weeks later i asked him did he mean it when he said he would still be my friend and he said yes and i told him and he was stil my friend,,,

[Alexwellace]

Good friend. But be careful, because there is quite a chance your not gay after all. You said sometimes you think you might be gay, does this mean feel attracted to guys physically? Because this is a perfectly normal thing and doesn't set your sexuality in stone. So depending on how old you are (early teens is usually when 'that phase' kicks in, late teens you usually have a good idea of who you want to be with) you could very well not be gay at all. No clue how to get the cat back in the bag though =P Might be worth saying 'it was just a phase' thing rather then saying 'Ha, April fools....#2???

If you are truly gay then you owe it to your girlfriend to brake up with her. But maybe don't say its because you are gay, you will have to think of something else. Maybe your like 'super busy right now with exams and stuff' xD

[APhkinPanda]

You could be potentially bisexual or just kind of "curious" though don't worry about it. It's normal to be gay or bisexual. Also you have a great friend. He seems to cherish the friendship you guys have.

[imjustlivinglife]

well the thing i didnt mention is after i told him,, i started to like him and i eventually told him that i like him but it kind of ruined our friendship he isnt gay or none of that shyt ,,,,we still cool but he keeps his distance now and we are not close like we use to be

[Zwxg]

Good friend. But be careful, because there is quite a chance your not gay after all. You said sometimes you think you might be gay, does this mean feel attracted to guys physically? Because this is a perfectly normal thing and doesn't set your sexuality in stone. So depending on how old you are (early teens is usually when 'that phase' kicks in, late teens you usually have a good idea of who you want to be with) you could very well not be gay at all. No clue how to get the cat back in the bag though =P Might be worth saying 'it was just a phase' thing rather then saying 'Ha, April fools....#2???

If you are truly gay then you owe it to your girlfriend to brake up with her. But maybe don't say its because you are gay, you will have to think of something else. Maybe your like 'super busy right now with exams and stuff' xD

yea you could just be curious which is pretty common at that age

[nicknack100]

Main thing is: he'll be you friend no matter what you're attracted to.

[APhkinPanda]

He is just keeping his distance because it could be a new thing. Someone of the same gender liking him is probably new and isn't familiar to him. Also he is also most likely a bit nervous and uneasy to be near you because you guys were good friends and now you just told him that, You are experiencing feelings for him. Just give it some time. Don't expect things to correct itself over night. It could be a while till he is ready to confront you again.

[sartbimpson55]

Are you really gay or are you just curious

[heresravenclaw]

that's a great friend