What do you think?

[highschooler]

My close friend (a girl) and I were talking about sex. We both like eachother and are trying to navigate a possible relationship. I just thought that she hadtwo odd points of view:

1) She says that the first type of sex she ever wants to do is actual vaginal intercourse. I said that that's a huge step, and that there are other types of sex. She said that she thinks blow jobs are nasty (and I kinda agree), but I said I was thinking more hands less mouths. She wasn't sure.

2) On a related note, she said she has never masturbated. I do often. He r reasoning is that sexual pleasure is meant to be felt only between two people. While I'd not completely disagree, I think masturbation is one of the best things ever for teenagers, and would like to convince her to try. I think that if she tries at least once, and has an orgasm, she will be more willing to start with other forms of sex when we get to that point. Not to mention shell have a new stress reliever!

So my question is:

Should I try to convince her to try masturbating at least once?

And, if so, How should I go about this in conversation?

Thanks!

[johnsmith1]

It would just be a case of chatting.Yes a hj is different from a bj. Maybe if you can get her to try and do that on you, you could then try and offer to reciprocate the favour. In terms of conversattion, do you ever cuddle up with her? May be during one of those special moments?

[Haz222]

Since you seem to chat so much about sex, try suggesting it to her during a conversation. If she says no, move on!

Anyway, good luck man.

[HunterBlue]

I wouldn't try to get her to do anything she doesn't want to so. Seriously that is soooooo annoying!!!!! There's nothing worse than someone nagging you to do something that you find a turn off. Let it go. If she wants to, she'll do it. Otherwise she's just gonna start hating you for trying to get her to do stuff.

[highschooler]

It's not so much that she doesn't want to, more that she has no interest in it.