help

[Ryukamen]

[SORRY FOR THIS LINE]


JUST kidding! ( i'm 13)
Ok heres my real problem, there's this girl who I used to ''go out with'', but we didn't really do anything, because I didn't really like anyone/her, and I was kinda shy. She broke up with me, I don't know why, she was perfectly fine one hour, then the next hour she just IM'ed me and said ''im braking up wit u. i dont think our bond is strong enuff. we can still be frendz, rite?''
then 2 minutes later... "thats it! never talk 2 me again! i hate u, u ruined my life!"
I had said nothing between, except, ''sure we can still be friends''. :(:eek::confused:
Now I don't know why, but I guess my puberty is kickin' in stronger than ever and I can't stop thinking about her, during school, during ''private stuff'', almost anytime. I'm pretty sure I can resist if I try hard enough....

But I want to be with her badly. :wub::wub:
She has a group of friends that I'm not in, I'm a bit of a loner.. and she isn't in any of my classes, it is almost like after one grade we were separated forever, but I see her b4 school, and sometimes after school. I don't think she likes anyone right now, maybe she does maybe she doesn't. I don't want to embarass myself, I don't have her IM anymore, or her myspace... I think I still have her phone number... PLEASE HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO??? PLEASE HELP A YOUNG LOVER IN DESPAIR!!

[Aηdy]

im considering having sex i is is 9 yeer olde.


JUST kidding! ( i'm 13)

Don't say that you're underage again please. Weather you're joking or not we have to take it seriously.

[Ryukamen]

sorry :( i was just trying to get away from sadness and sorrow. is that so bad? 0=)

[MAXD88]

I imagine my relationship will end in the exact same way if I can't get my gfs attention sooner or later >.> I am in a very similar position, with the "weak bond" and a loner status that conflicts with her social group /:

Idk if your situation is anything like mine or if I can be of much help but at least I can relate to some extent.

[Ryukamen]

puh-lizzle help :yes:

[byee]

Sometimes you don't get what you want, and this might be one of those times. If she's telling you that she doesn't want a relationship, then there's not much you can do about it.

Wanting to be in a relationship is a good thing, putting all your eggs in this one basket isn't. Use your desire to be with someone to find that someone who will want to be with you.

[Ryukamen]

p.s. we were separated for a year. we broke up last year and now i'm starting to like her. it wasn't like, 2 weeks ago.

[woahman]

maybe the only reason you want her, is that you can't have her. sometimes you've just got to move on, you know?