Bisexuality...

[guycuberguy]

Last time i was in here was almost a year ago, i said on my thread that i came out as a bi and everything went good... Now i have a girlfriend, and i know she reallly loves me, but i am afraid that i am starting to stop love her... And my homosexual side is growing, i cant brake up withher, but its making me crazyyy!!!!

[johnsmith1]

Firstly, is there any one else (female or male)? If there's no-one else, that's a good start, and you need to think what made you love her at the start. Then just spend some nice quality time with her. If there is someone else, it's time to make tough choices.

[Syvelocin]

You may just be growing apart which is a pretty typical thing in longer relationships. You just have to work harder! What are some fond memories you have of when you started dating? Did you go to the movies? What was the first movie you watched together? Plan a cozy night in when you watch that movie. Or take her back to the first place you guys had dinner together.

It's pretty typical as a relationship goes on to just not really try as hard as you did before, and then it feels like you're growing apart. It can just be that the excitement is dying down. Do things like I said, that remind you of when your relationship was at its peak, or do new things like amusement parks, beach trips (if that's convenient for you, or lakeside trip), concerts.

Of course, it can be you're continuing to discover yourself and who you are and you're realizing you lean more toward men than women. That's completely normal as well. Actually, that's exactly how it went down for me. I came out bi and later figured out I wasn't all that into guys (down to 95/5 or so now, so I identify gay). I had to make the decision to spare my guy's feelings temporarily and completely wreck them later when I realized I'd probably eventually cheat on him, or hurt him now and save him from extra heartbreak. And at the end of it, your life is about you. I had trouble with that for a while as well. Every relationship up through the last guy I dated, I let them break up with me or just let the relationship burn out because I really didn't want to be the dumper. But you have to think about yourself, what you want, because worrying about them is something they have to do. And yeah, if it comes to the point you're not satisfied with only a woman then being honest with her is so much less painful than when the inevitable happens.

[ChrisA1998]

Last time i was in here was almost a year ago, i said on my thread that i came out as a bi and everything went good... Now i have a girlfriend, and i know she reallly loves me, but i am afraid that i am starting to stop love her... And my homosexual side is growing, i cant brake up withher, but its making me crazyyy!!!!

gay or not, we all have the same problem : how can you be sure that you re not be interested by another girl (or boy) while you already have a gf ?
You just cant...
If one day you become more interested by another boy, that means it will be time to break up with your current gf, even though today it looks impossible to you.

you cant know what will happen in the future so just dont think about that. If you start to think in "what if" you never do anything, so take life as it is today, dont worry too much for the future, you'll see how it goes on... ;-)

[TheCakeTin]

I say, you should stay with her.