Really nervous..... HELP

[ForrestGump]

Well my friend and I have a really sexual relationship. We don't really do anything but we say a lot os things..... And basically I was having another conversation with her like two minutes ago and she said her mom saw... The thing is her mom isin't too strict but her dad is. And I'm really nervous if she'll tell my parents or if she may get in trouble..... Guys please help me calm my nerves. What should I do?

[Wanderer_]

I'm sure her Mom wouldn't, knowing the shitstorm that could ensue
She's probably happier knowing her daughter is talking about it with someone than out there trying it

[ForrestGump]

It's not really like that. We talk about doing it and stuff. But update on everything. She said she talked to her mom about it and she understands now. But her mom thinks I was trying to defile her..... So I feel better but I'm still really nervous.

[Wanderer_]

Well I hope it works out ok
Did her mom say she didn't want you two to talk that way anymore?

[HunterBlue]

Something like that happened to me. A girl who was a friend of mine was talking about maybe doing the friends with benefits thing. One time at her house at night I was over, and she liked to cuddle so I was laying in bed with her. She just had on a big shirt and nothing else. But I was fully clothed. Even had my shoes on. And then suddenly we heard these feet running upstairs, jump down the steps and boom her door opened and the was her dad.

I said I swear to god, I'm just sitting here (which I really was). Her dad said it was time for her guest to leave so I did. Later at her aunts he as there and in front of everyone asked to speak to me and she just gasped.

He just wanted to Thank me for helping out the other day and that was it. But I thought he was going to chew me out.

But here's what I did -----> what can you do about it? Absolutely nothing. So you may as well look him in the eye and try to be a man about it and just say nothing happened. Seriously, that's all you can do. No point in getting al, freaked out about it. And this is why this is my advice....if it turns out he doesn't buy what you say and gets mad, at least you looked mature and respectful. Ever hear of this saying, in a crises you can see someone true character? Well, now they get to see your character.

[ForrestGump]

Her mom didin't say anything to me..... but thanks guys... you really helped a lot, you should add me as a friend and we should talk

[Sir Suomi]

As Hunter wisely stated, don't stress about it. It's a shame that her mom found out, but it happens, as you can see. Hell, it happened to me while I was in a relationship last year, except it was my friend who stole my phone and found some of the messages/pictures. I almost had a panic attack worrying that he would go and tell someone. But my friend swore not to ever tell anyone, and so far he's kept his word. So anyways, just keep calm, and if her mother does mention that she doesn't want you to talk to her, maybe just wait it out, even talk to her mother, making it clear you meant no harm. Trust me, she'll respect you a lot more if you have the balls to look her in the eye and explain yourself. Good luck man! :D

[drew6]

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[Krash9]

ya dude, keep your head down, lay low, and be respectful

[ForrestGump]

Thanks guys.. this really meant a lot. If I ever go to her house again :P I will talk to her mom and maybe her dad :O just in case :3 :D

[HockeyLovesMe]

well if yur not actualy doing anything then i dont see why they would be all mad and stuff but ya mabey just dont do bad talking stuff when yur are her house and just do it at yur house or at school or something :)