Some big problems

[Mike14]

First, i am sorry if i ll make some grammar mistakes :whoops:

There it s a girl that i felt something big for her, it was kind of a crush, but she had a crush on a good friend of mine.. so i was expecting to work for them, so i had to hide my feelings, to forget them, and i did it, but after a while they broke up (yep, they were together , as i expected) . Anyway after that , some kind of feelings came back, but i am in a dilemma because i don t know what feelings are thoose,and of course i don t know her feelings. so this is all i can say > i think of her maybe all of the time, sometimes we get verry close, sometimes she acts verry distant, i mean one moment she s verry sweet and the next moment bang she acts bitchy( i think this it s a good word, idk, maybe it s too much ) and we have some inside jokes, like the jokes when we say that we are engaged and we are preparing locations for the honey moon. Anyway, i don t really know if this girl really likes me, i think she is aware of my feelings(even if i am confused) ... My problems are with the talking, i can t go to a deep conversation , i mean to something where i can say things more close to love, we have conversations about random things (this it s online)... on of the sweetest thing i think i said it s something like this

(she-s) (me-m)
(sorry if the translate it s bad )
S- you won t feel me in bed, because i don t take much space
M- there is no problem, i will come closer to you
S- And would you take me in your arms?
M- of course i will, and i ll keep you closer to me
S- close to your heart?
M- yes, and i won t let you go til in the morning
something like that .. what do you think?
And also i have problems in talking many things with her, face to face, i don t say i can t talk to her, i can but not many things, and i wish i could talk easily with her, any tips?

Also , i will try to go for a kiss pretty soon, what do you think?
If i will go for it i will try something like this>
I will walk her home, and when she want s to go, i will ask if she can make me a favor, and if she says yes i will say "close your eyes" and then the kiss, what do you think?
please help..

[habitualrelapser]

first of all that's a very sweet idea for a first kiss for you two, kudos for thinking of it :) but it kinda sounds like she's playing you. She probably thinks your a sweet guy, but isn't actually interested in you. Regretfully I've done the same with some guy friends of mine before I grew up. The times where she's acting "bitchy" might be the times when she's realizing what she's doing and trying to distance herself from the problem. obviously i'm not there in your guy's interaction but this would be my best guess from my own experiences.

[Mike14]

Thx for the answer :D
Well , today i started a tactical thing? well i gaved her an option, because i started to stay away from her, i mean i let her to make a move, i won t talk as often with her, i won t go at her as often, i ll let her to decide if she want s something.. if she want something it s her call, either she will come at me, either i will leave the idea of "us". Today was kind of ok, because i was "distant", and she comed at me for attention i think.. i shall try these the next days, see what s going on :D what do you think?

[habitualrelapser]

I think that's a good idea, but be careful. Don't stop just when she gives more attention to you. I think you should make her flat out say that she likes you. If she doesn't actually like you she'll give up after a while. good luck :)

[Mike14]

Thx and could you give me some tips to get into depper conversations with girls?

[habitualrelapser]

what exactly are you trying to talk to them about?

[Mike14]

nevermind.. i ll just try to talk about everything :)