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tomfelix
May 8th, 2013, 11:42 AM
I asked a girl out on a date today, we're going to the cinema on Saturday...I have no idea what I'm doing :D
1. How do I dress?
2. Do I get her a gift?
3. What do we talk about?
I'm not naive or stupid and think that anything sexual is gonna come out of this but what about a kiss? How do I go about that?
Really nervous lol hope you can help
HollisterGirl98
May 8th, 2013, 11:59 AM
Awww congrats!!!
1. You should dress nicely to impress her but it's the way you treat her that's most important. Jeans and a shirt may be enough for a 1st date
2. That's up to you. A little gift can't hurt
3. Just talk about life lol. If you go to school together that's one thing you can talk about
In my opinion, the 1st kiss comes naturally, but that's coming from a girl. Hope this helps!
chezhans
May 9th, 2013, 05:11 AM
Yep yep and yep exactly what Brenda said ;)...Although for me I would say that sunglasses are a bonus (you would be surprised!)
ForrestGump
May 10th, 2013, 08:42 PM
Personally I would say be yourself. Don't dress any differently. Talk to her like she's your friend cause in a way that's what you're trying to achieve.... except it's a really good friend :P
dontfiguremeout
May 10th, 2013, 10:52 PM
Okay so congrats for getting your first date! I would dress kinda nice, but not what you would wear on Sunday. But not your trashiest clothes! And if you want a nice scent, one spray of cologne should be perfect!
Now you don't have to get her a gift, but if you want to that will be totally up to you! But because it's your first, don't go big on the gift!
And well you should talk about yourself so she gets to know you and ask her questions about herself so you can get to know her!
tomfelix
May 12th, 2013, 12:05 PM
So it all went okay I think :) I guess we'll find out if we have another one.
I got her a cheap little bracelet from Accessorize but it looked nice so... Didn't dress too badly just "nice"
AND she kissed me on the cheek when she left and said it was fun, I'd like to go on another one at some point... Any tips?
Mirage
May 12th, 2013, 01:01 PM
I'm in this same situation. First date ever on Wednesday!
Congrats on your successful first date!
Deleted 12
May 13th, 2013, 06:17 AM
Yep yep and yep exactly what Brenda said ;)...Although for me I would say that sunglasses are a bonus (you would be surprised!)
Yeah they really do but take them off inside :P
FullyAlive
May 14th, 2013, 12:24 PM
So it all went okay I think :) I guess we'll find out if we have another one.
I got her a cheap little bracelet from Accessorize but it looked nice so... Didn't dress too badly just "nice"
AND she kissed me on the cheek when she left and said it was fun, I'd like to go on another one at some point... Any tips?
Just ask her out again? Like you did before?
Any kiss at 13 even on the cheek would seem to indicate she likes you and would be open to another date. So just ask her you've got nothing to lose and chances are she'll say yes again.
When you do go out again though maybe not get her a gift? Whilst it's cute if you get together it could end up being one very expensive relationship although i guess that's your prerogative.
AlexBarrett
May 14th, 2013, 12:39 PM
Dress sharp as a tack, best clothes you have.
Gifts don't hurt. Women like gifts.
Sart conversation off by saying hi. Get to know her.
HockeyLovesMe
May 14th, 2013, 04:00 PM
best part about a movie is that if the date goes bad then u wont have to talk all that much.. but ya just be normal and dress nice but not like church cloths just nice cloths and let us know how it all goes :)
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