Could use some help here everybody :)

[Watchmeblock]

Hi there i could use some help i'am 14 turning 15 oct 13 and i was thinking about going back to a public school for highschool and i'm really nervous because i have a feeling that no girls will find me attractive and everybody tells me i need this crazy 6 pack to get a girl is that true and is that the way girls think in highschool? i need to get over this fear before i make a decision about going back or not. Thanks in advance.

[johnsmith1]

Yes, there is a certain attaction quick physical attraction to someme with a 6 pack. However, there is a lot more than that for relatioship to ultimately last (OK so that is a long term statement!). Just be yourself. Yes there may be girls with confidecne or eyes that may go for these sorts, but believe me, there will be as many nervous girls too, who may take their time, and realise there's more to your personality than just a 6 pack.

[nevillee9]

Noo!! That's not true!!

[tomfelix]

You shouldn't base your reason on going to a school depending on girls or what kinds relationship you might have.
You must have bigger issues to worry about like: Where your friends are going, what grade you'll get, how far away it is, etc.
Most people won't have a "real" relationship during school anyway it's the friends you make which is more important.

[Watchmeblock]

The real reason i started online schooling is cuz i was bullied everyday i went there and if i didnt deal with the friends i had bullying me i wouldn't have any but now i know i can ignore all that stuff better it was just what came to my mind and was just wondering :) i had a great relation ship with a girl in gr 7 until i broke up with her thats when it all started.

[JustAFool]

The real reason i started online schooling is cuz i was bullied everyday i went there and if i didnt deal with the friends i had bullying me i wouldn't have any but now i know i can ignore all that stuff better it was just what came to my mind and was just wondering :) i had a great relation ship with a girl in gr 7 until i broke up with her thats when it all started.

Location: Canada

Do you people do that there? :eek:

Umm, about the question and the 6 packs.. I personally would not date a guy with a 6 pack. I do enjoy looking at them, but I wouldn't date one. In Bulgarian we have this proverb which says "there are passengers for every train", which means you can always find someone who'll see your good sides and will accept your flaws. Looks have a lot to do with dating, I'm not gonna lie, but the most important thing of all is to keep yourself clean and be very manerly all the time.

Good luck, love! :)

[Synyster Shadows]

Girls that only like you for your physical appearance don't deserve you. You should pursue a girl that likes you for you and that you like for who she is, not what she looks like.

[Krash9]

Ive found that girls are much more emotional about boys.

[ChrisFromKY]

I wouldn't worry about it man. If they only like someone because they have a toned stomach they are pretty shallow. You'll find someone who likes you for who you are.

[ForrestGump]

Trust me.... I myself.... not in shape but still a lot of girls have liked me. Use you personality to get them.

[BrandonA]

a girl should look you for you not because of some nice features. there is a girl who will appreciate you.

[Watchmeblock]

Thanks everybody for the great replies makes me feel better about going back :)
Feel free to add me to fl im on here everyday and down to chat.

[AmazingGrace]

I do find guys with abs attractive and sexy, but if my boyfriend was the sexiest man on earth but didn't really like me, I'd break up with him in a heartbeat. Believe me, personality is the biggie. no one wants to date a mean guy with a big dick. I would choose the nerd with a tiny dick than some stupid jerk with a six pack. You'll be fine man :)

[HockeyLovesMe]

if yur nice thats wat is important for sure looks arent everything and keep your shirt on then they wont know what u have keep them guessing haha

[Deleted 12]

Hi there i could use some help i'am 14 turning 15 oct 13 and i was thinking about going back to a public school for highschool and i'm really nervous because i have a feeling that no girls will find me attractive and everybody tells me i need this crazy 6 pack to get a girl is that true and is that the way girls think in highschool? i need to get over this fear before i make a decision about going back or not. Thanks in advance.

Dont worry people are all different i myself have no preference for 6packs and if a girl only wants you for a 6pack than she aint worth it,

[HowlingSnail]

Don't worry, it's not true. If it was, I'd be doomed!

[mattywiz96]

not gonna lie i thought that too, but its school just do the work and maybe youll get a girl. i mean ive never got 'the girl' hell ive never really had any girl and im in the fucking marines so sixpack can fuck off lol