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musicmanmike
May 8th, 2013, 12:40 AM
So I was dating this girl for four months and we really had a deep connection. Unfortunately my parents didn't approve of her so we were dating secretly. It was the craziest feeling ever, I've never loved anyone like her and when we weren't together we were texting constantly. About a month ago my parents found out and tried to force us apart. They sent her this terrible letter that told her that she was a horrible person and was leading me on. That letter devasted her and she felt like I didn't stand up for her. She wanted to separate. That was a month ago and I have since talked to her. She says that she felt so unprotected and scared the whole time. I've promised her that I understand that better now and have learned what I need to do to help her feel loved and protected. She's not sure and says she doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone. I love her more than anything else and would risk everything and give up my life for her. What can I do to convince her and get back in a relationship with her so that I can protect her and she can feel loved again?
Sweet Smart Smexi
May 8th, 2013, 04:39 AM
This is coming from a girl: Tell her how you feel about you and her being together. You'll need to show a grand, romantic gesture to prove it. Hope this helps. Prove to her that you are MTB
musicmanmike
May 8th, 2013, 04:34 PM
This is coming from a girl: Tell her how you feel about you and her being together. You'll need to show a grand, romantic gesture to prove it. Hope this helps. Prove to her that you are MTB

MTB? What kind of gesture?
Sweet Smart Smexi
May 9th, 2013, 05:23 AM
MTB: Meant to Be
Anything you think would win her over
musicmanmike
May 9th, 2013, 11:59 PM
MTB: Meant to Be
Anything you think would win her over

I'm not really good at that stuff.
Plane And Simple
May 10th, 2013, 12:32 AM
Theu sent a letter to her in your name? That's very nasty. Just tell her the whole story and ask to talk about it. Meet and just have a talk.
musicmanmike
May 10th, 2013, 11:53 PM
Theu sent a letter to her in your name? That's very nasty. Just tell her the whole story and ask to talk about it. Meet and just have a talk.

Told the story. Gonna try to meet and talk but idk what to say to show her that really love her and that she can trust me.
Plane And Simple
May 11th, 2013, 02:15 AM
Just do what you think. If you love her it'll come out fine. Try to express the love physically when possible, and as said, just talk.
APhkinPanda
May 11th, 2013, 05:05 AM
Wow, I would be very disappointed/mad with my parents if they were to do that. Meet up, and discuss things. Show her ( physically/romantically ) how much you care. Make sure you bring her favorite flowers or candy. Make her feel special. Then after you do all the hard work. Give her some space, if its needed. then it's up for her to decide, on how the relationship will continue.
musicmanmike
May 12th, 2013, 12:58 AM
Wow, I would be very disappointed/mad with my parents if they were to do that. Meet up, and discuss things. Show her ( physically/romantically ) how much you care. Make sure you bring her favorite flowers or candy. Make her feel special. Then after you do all the hard work. Give her some space, if its needed. then it's up for her to decide, on how the relationship will continue.

Sounds good man. Anything else anybody? Need all the help I can get.