Confused;

[Joe69]

i am really confused. i dont know what to do.. im a guy and feel like im attracted to others guys but the problem is that my environment says that it is wrong and my family is a really religious group so that can only tell you, which is why im in the closet.. i cant seem to find proof that its right. the only proof i have is down in my heart cause it sure feels dam good like its the right thing.

[steellord321]

why do you need more proof than that? Its hard to accept everyone is wrong, but you would know better - your going through it. I think you'll find that being gay is harmless and doesn't change who u are. It's just one part of life. You can't tell them, i understand, but try to find support somewhere.

[JonasBe]

You are who you are. Trying to suppress the the fact that you are gay or bi will do you more harm in the end instead of accepting who you are and coming out for it.
But it might be hard, very hard for you to cope with it because your environment could react badly.

It's a good thing you admit that you feel right about it.
Your family is your family, and in most cases eventually they will accept you for who you are. Religion is dangerous, but only the close minded people say being gay is against God's will. I don't believe in God, but I do know a lot of people who do and have nothing against being gay.

You will find out sooner or later how they will react, but just stay true to yourself, you don't want to live in a lie, believe me on that.

[justin 13]

Dude I feel the same way. but I know is not the right time to come out of the closet, my catholic school, my catholic family.. my friends too much to handle and I don't wanna to be rejected. I know 4 sure I am gay. The time will come when I will share it to the rest of the world. But you r not living a lie, I don't agree with our friend above.

[Kuurachan]

I used to think being gay was some sort of sickness and was taboo or something because my family never talked about it. I am myself a Christian and I know for fact that as long as anybody believes in him, there is nothing that they can do to be taken away from the promise of Heaven after death. Even if somebody stopped believing, he'd still allow them life after death. And I know for fact that being gay isn't a sin. Love is love, and of two people love each other, there is no sin in that. Sin is hurting somebody else or hurting ourselves, but loving somebody is a wonderful thing that does no harm, but so many people seem to think so. So what if people think your weird? It's none of their business who you love, it's not their life. If your family really loves you, they should love still regardless of what sexuality you are. I have no found the right person yet, but I know that I'll love the person no matter if it's a boy or girl. If only Christians would stop twisting the words of the bible to fit their own ideas! It says nothing about being gay is being wrong.
In the end, once you tell other people, no matter what anybody thought at the time you all see it was such a stupid thing to being fighting about, since straight couple is equal to a gay couple, it's only 2 people in love! Let it be and find happiness in life instead of things to worry yourself over, bro :)
Sorry if that was too long, haha, but I remember thinking that whatever anybody told me was truth. Nope! Decide for yourself what you believe, set the grounds that you will stand on and get out in the world, unafraid to be you!

[Joe69]

thanks everyone for you'll advise and kuurachan that wasnt long at all it gave me a lot to think of. its just that, i feel if i come out my life would be a living hell. im just scared

[Lovelife090994]

Go with what you wish, tell your family later.

[Foamy]

Your family has nothing to do with how you feel about yourself. Do what feels right. You don't need any proof except that you know who you are.

[ChrisA1998]

i am really confused. i dont know what to do.. im a guy and feel like im attracted to others guys but the problem is that my environment says that it is wrong and my family is a really religious group so that can only tell you, which is why im in the closet.. i cant seem to find proof that its right. the only proof i have is down in my heart cause it sure feels dam good like its the right thing.

there is no right or wrong in loving / being attracted by another boy.

About this matter, the only right thing to do is for parents to support their children and love them whatever their sexuality ;-)

[answers-101]

you can't change who you are, and you shouldn't want to. if, deep down, you know that you are gay/bi, don't be scared to follow that impulse and see where it leads you. ultimately, you are the only person that truly understands how you're feeling - and noone can change that; not your family, friends or religion. denying who you are only makes you feel worse, trust me :)