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ndd09
May 7th, 2013, 12:42 AM
On Friday, my boyfriend and I are going to a social event where there will be many people attending. Some of them are: Emily, a girl that had feelings for my boyfriend when I started dating him, causing her to try and break us up, which didn't end well. Obviously there are tensions between me and her. Jake: A guy who had feelings for me when I started dating my boyfriend. He is more of the aggressive type. He and emily are best friends, and they both were upset and angry at the same time when we started dating. My boyfriend has received indirect threats from Jake as I have from Emily. We will be in the same place at the same time as them and there is going to be no way to avoid them. We have many mutual friends that will be talking to both me and my boyfriend AND Jake and Emily. I am worried about fights breaking out and/or people being emotionally hurt. What can I do to avoid this? What can I do to keep tensions low? :confused:

Hank Hill
May 7th, 2013, 01:11 AM
If it's an event where "many people are attending" just try to do your best to have fun, but maybe avoid any groups of people where either Jake or Emily are hanging out with.
If you're extremely worried about it and the event is optional (again, this is if you're VERY worried) you can always skip the event.
Just don't let those two walk over you either, this is your relationship, and they need to deal with it pretty much and let it be.

~Tyler