View Full Version : What purpose do i have?
liveandlearn
December 4th, 2007, 04:04 PM
I cant take it! My parents divorce, my moms druged up boy friend,my dad depresed,its like wtf! it all happens so quik! My friends Whow are 13 along with me wont grow the fuck up!! I cant tell them any thing Without them thinking im wierd. I need help. i talked to my guidance couselor wow suggested i draw! Dont work.I keep having thoughts of sucide and im starting to consider it. I have no purpose
Hyper
December 4th, 2007, 05:10 PM
You do have purposes, and your parents make their own choices..
Same goes for your friends, everyone is different and you can't completly change the way the life of people who are around you keeps going, unless they wan't to change it.
If you care about your dad being depressed than be there for him. As you seem more mature than the most 13 year olds I'm sure he would be glad to see his son is there for him.
If you can help those who you care about then do it.. It wouldn't do anyone you care about good if you end up hurting or even killing yourself over other people's problems..
I understand that you are depressed about people around you but it would make you rather feel good if you help them or atleast even try.
Just reply back we're here to listen to you and help you in any way we can.
PS. The drawing idea seems pretty BS to me lol..
blank_07
December 4th, 2007, 06:27 PM
Don't commit suicide. Please. People DO need you. Imagine where your family will be without you. You are probably one of the only good things in their lives.
:) Good luck.
liveandlearn
December 4th, 2007, 07:52 PM
I realy dont now! i always try to help my parents .All the chores. They dont listen wen i tell them how i feel i support my dad he ignores me! Wat can i do!!
thesphinx
December 4th, 2007, 11:24 PM
If they don't appreciate you then they don't deserve your attention. I think you need to find a good counselor, who you feel you can connect with.
liveandlearn
December 5th, 2007, 02:51 PM
K guys i talked 2 my parents last night. Mom on the phone. all they said is ur a kid stop worrying! They dont get the harm its causing me and even my grandparents! My grandpa has a bad heart he had a heart atack and he doesnt need more stress my parents are selfiocis jerks.More my mom
thesphinx
December 5th, 2007, 03:24 PM
aww man I'm sorry its not working out. maybe you should talk to your grandparents. maybe they can help you get the message through to them that they are causing you harm. if they say your just a kid, well then get someone whose older so they might start listening. Hang in there.
Hyper
December 5th, 2007, 03:28 PM
K guys i talked 2 my parents last night. Mom on the phone. all they said is ur a kid stop worrying! They dont get the harm its causing me and even my grandparents! My grandpa has a bad heart he had a heart atack and he doesnt need more stress my parents are selfiocis jerks.More my mom
No your parents just don't want you to be depressed or worried.. Their just not thinking straight so they fail to see that in reality saying that wont do anything besides invoke your ''teen spirit'' xD..
liveandlearn
December 15th, 2007, 06:30 PM
THANK GOD THINGS ARE STARTING TO SHAPE UP!! MY PARENTS R LISTENING TO ME AND MY MOM STILL HAS A BF BUT I TALKED TO HIM AND HE SAID HILL TRY 2 STOP:lol:D:D:DSRY IM SO HAPPY:D:D:D
thesphinx
December 15th, 2007, 07:23 PM
Good, I'm glad you found a solution to your problem.
Good luck man :D:D
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