Girls: What is to small?

[Cicero]

So say you were about to have sex with a guy for the first time (not first time having sex, but having sex with a particular guy for the first time) and he unzips his pants. He's already, 'excited', but he only measures 5.5 inches, what would your reaction be? Would you say anything?

Alright, say this is the same scenario, except his dick is 6.5 inches, what would your reaction be? Would you say anything?

What would be too small?

Lastly, do girls realize that some guys are growers instead of showers? Would y be grossed out by seeing a guy who's a grower not aroused? I'm a grower, and I was thinking if I were to have sex with a girl, I'd be worried that shed say something about my size, say, when were done having sex, therefore, I wouldn't be aroused or anything and it'd be 2-3 inches.


I want you opinion

[ForrestGump]

Well not a girl but you know.... :P 5 inches is average so I guess everything below that is small. Plus just be confident. And most of the work comes from the mouth. :3

[Sweet Smart Smexi]

Well, it would depend on the girl

[lauren1]

I don't know why guys think girls are obssessed about their size down there. I don't know of any girl who is concerned about it. It's the guy as a whole who is important, not his size.

[Taryn98]

the only thing that can be too small is a guy's confidense!!
If I like a guy, I don't care about his size, I care about my emotional connection to him

[Reanne]

I know guys are obsessed with size and yes there is a size too small and it's probably close to the size of your little finger.
5.5 inches isn't small, I've had guys probably as small as 4-4.5 inches and it was still enjoyable.

[Ballboy]

I know guys are obsessed with size and yes there is a size too small and it's probably close to the size of your little finger.
5.5 inches isn't small, I've had guys probably as small as 4-4.5 inches and it was still enjoyable.

Yay! :-)

[chrisawesome]

the only thing that can be too small is a guy's confidense!!
If I like a guy, I don't care about his size, I care about my emotional connection to him

You make a good point there.

Anyway, If you are around 6 inches erect that is when your dick is completely hard right? answer yes.
Ok, so then the only way to hide the fact that your dick is 2-3 inches is to do a little foreplay first. Make out a little or rub her in some places. That usualy gets me semi erect in less than 5 seconds. If you choose the hot girls then this time it takes to get hard really wont be that long. After sex, if you feel insecure about your size then make her happy in other ways. There are many good things you can do with a naked body without being hard.-- If she randomly goes up to you and asks to see your dick, RUN AWAY. That is a red flag for a classless ho probably with some type of STD! Or if you insist, then flirt a little and think about your dick up her ass. --Ok I just got hard for a second!

[nancy_moon]

the only thing that can be too small is a guy's confidense!!
If I like a guy, I don't care about his size, I care about my emotional connection to him

I agree with you :yes:

[Arsenalfan123]

IV only known one girl to care all the rest dont

[Wanderer_]

5.5 is nice, relax already

Despite popular opinion we don't actually want our cervix smashed and everything stretched out by something as wide as a coke can

Please don't double post, use the edit button next time ~Derri

[Synyster Shadows]

Dude, look at a standard 12 inch ruler. 5.5 inches from the end is pretty long. That's fine. And 6.5? Pfft, you're just way too stressed out, dude. Take it easy.

[SammyG17]

I've been with tiny, thin, long, wide, and everything in between. The smallest was 3.5", the largest was 10". And since you like numbers, circumferences from 1.2" through 7".

The absolute best size for me, is the way I feel about the person. The problem with media, the internet, porn, and people whose friend's brag, is that as a teenager (and even pre-teens/tweens) you are given specific information and made to feel ashamed about it if you don't measure up.

It takes a lot more to make a girl cum than just a large penis. And this is where the information fails. See, even if you have 3", and are as big around as finger, if she is even letting you do that to her, it means she doesn't care. Not only that, but, there are tons, (lots, many, various, numerous) ways to get someone off that have nothing to do with your penis at all. Those ways, well those are the ways to blow the girls mind. Make her feel good like that, make her feel like she's the only person in the world that matters to you, and anything you pack down there is acceptable.

[Buggahh]

Nothing is too small. I'm a strong believer that sex should be an additional level to a relationship, you have to have the foundations of love and trust before you make love to gain that intimate and sexual connection to take the relationship to the next level.
Size shouldn't be important... if you think about it, a guys penis size is no different to a girls breast size, it's something that the holder feels concious about, but when it comes down to it, the opposite or same gender don't really care.
My biggest and most important advice is if anyone says anything, then are they really the kind of person you want to be with? Sex is much more satisfying and intense when there is an emotional and passionate connection, without that, sex is just a meaningless fumble and you won't gain the maximum pleasure from it anyway.
Find someone that loves you for who you are, not how big you are!

[GigglyAbby]

First -- I know that a guy's penis can be a tad bigger or super bigger when it's erect. Second -- I haven't seen a small penis [less than 4-4.5 inches] or a big one so I haven't dealt with it much. Third -- if I do -- both he and I can be creative and figure it out. I won't dump a guy because he's not something I'm used to as that's quite childish.

[Amy_I_am]

If I like a guy, I don't care about his size, I care about my emotional connection to him

I'd like to think I'm the same, but I've only been with guys that have had average to big dicks, so I have found myself wondering sometimes what I would do if I was with a guy that had a dick so small it actually didn't stimulate me sexually.

[Cicero]

I'd like to think I'm the same, but I've only been with guys that have had average to big dicks, so I have found myself wondering sometimes what I would do if I was with a guy that had a dick so small it actually didn't stimulate me sexually.

Fake it? :P

[Amy_I_am]

Fake it? :P

Lol, I guess youre joking, but in all seriousness, I'd never do that. I don't thik I'd be 100% convincing, and if the guy figured out I was faking it he would feel even worse.

[Cicero]

Lol, I guess youre joking, but in all seriousness, I'd never do that. I don't thik I'd be 100% convincing, and if the guy figured out I was faking it he would feel even worse.

That's what I meant, fake it as in make him think you're getting the best sex ever lol

[imcoolbro]

so im guessing 5" is ok

[Perfectly Flawed]

so im guessing 5" is ok

Correct.

[imcoolbro]

cool thanks bro pm me anytime

[mikephelps]

I know guys are obsessed with size and yes there is a size too small and it's probably close to the size of your little finger.
5.5 inches isn't small, I've had guys probably as small as 4-4.5 inches and it was still enjoyable.

I'm still a virgin but this is very good news to me!!!

[DerBear]

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