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Britanian11
May 6th, 2013, 06:34 PM
Recently, it seems like all of my friends (all five of them) seem to be ignoring me on both Facebook and through text messages. I want to say it has been over the course of 2 months that this has been going on. Sadly, I haven't been able to see any of these people physically for a very long time because of my removal from public school (I didn't do anything bad, my school just has stupid "Zero-Intelligence" policies)

One of my friends (I thought we were friends anyway), a girl, hasn't replied to my last two messages to her in a few months. They were questions (So I would expect a response), sent over the course of two weeks. I'm afraid to send her anymore because I feel like she is ignoring me and that would only annoy her.

My other friend is a guy, and we used to hang out on Xbox LIVE all the time. I moved a few months ago, and sadly did not have internet access. I only recently got it at home and plan to start playing on Xbox again this week. But he really seems like he is ignoring me. I had internet every weekend, because I went to a relative's house, and I used TextPlus on my iPod to send him a text every weekend to try and start a conversation. He hasn't replied to me since March, where he chalked it up to be laziness (not entirely unbelievable), but this is going a bit over. Guy has an iPhone and keeps it on him at all times. And it's not like he ever leaves his room. Last time we had a full conversation over Facebook, we still seemed to be good friends.

Similar story with another friend. While he has replied to me, we don't talk. I send him a text and he might reply to me a week later. I don't even get this.

Top this with several of my teachers, whom I really liked and trusted, ignoring me (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=175024) I feel like complete shit. I don't understand why I am being ignored. I feel like I have done something when I haven't. I don't spam anyone with messages and I don't call my friends because I figure if they won't text me they won't talk to me.

Disasterology
May 6th, 2013, 07:20 PM
That really sucks, I feel the same way with my friend. Seemed like she was ignoring me, and I felt like I did something to annoy her, but I was pretty sure I didn't. On Facebook, she only gave me short replies. Once again I was thinking she was mad at me or something along those lines. I was already feeling like shit, so her ignoring me made it worse.Then things went back to normal between us, and around that time my mom found out that I cut, because of that I finally told her and she was upset because she felt that she could have helped. Once again I feel like she is ignoring me, and its probably because I didn't tell her about my self-harm issue until my mom found out. Sitting at the same table and just doesn't seem to talk to me, but whatever I'm moving so time to start practicing being alone.

At first I was just being paranoid, but now I'm not sure. I don't think you did anything wrong, so hopefully everything turns back to normal for you.