virginity :s

[Slothwispererer]

I am 14 and I don't know when I should be loosing my virginity :s should it be soon? or now? feel nervous and left behind:/ :(

[johnsmith1]

You're not left behind. I say most boys at your stage that say they have haven't as they dont want to be seen as being left out! The time will come wit the right person when you are ready.

[PinkFloyd]

Dude, you're 14 years old. Sure I was 14 when I lost mine, but I was literally one of 3 other kids in my entire class of 700 kids. No sweat, man! :)

[countryboi9]

lost mine at 14

[LouBerry]

Holy cats dude, just from personal experience, don't do that shit. You're fourteen, and if you get stupid, you might end up with a baby. Babies are bad.

[justinglives]

Dont rush loosing something so very important.
You only have 1 to give away. Make sure it will be something you will ALWAYS REMEMBER with GOOD memories. NOT some quickie just to say "i did it!"
Thas juss my opinion tho........

[itsthat0n3kid]

dont do it until youre ready. dont rush it. in the end it isnt worth it.

[RAGE DJ]

I think it depend on how you look at virginity. Some it's special to others it just word or status. If you want to lose it at 14 go ahead but if you want it to be special then just wait till it is.

[TheBigUnit]

I am 14 and I don't know when I should be loosing my virginity :s should it be soon? or now? feel nervous and left behind:/ :(

not now, later, when you find the right girl,

[help]

dont feel rushed, really it should be whenever you want to.

[ChrisA1998]

I am 14 and I don't know when I should be loosing my virginity :s should it be soon? or now? feel nervous and left behind:/ :(

you'll be losing it when you have found the right girl (or boy) and both of you are ready for it ;-)
there is no specific age for it ;-)

[Rdsxbaseballfan]

im 17 and still haven't lost my virginity and i know many others my age who still haven't either so you are totally fine. Personally i would wait till i find the right person but its your choice

[Buggahh]

I lost my virginity when I was 17, i always said that I was going to wait until I was married or until I met someone that it felt absolutely right with.
You'll know when the right time is, because you'll feel ready and you'll want to do it with someone special, your first time should be with someone you love to help to build on a connection you already have to add a degree of intimacy, I'd say wait as long as possible until you're certain it feels right for you and you do it with someone you trust. You should be in no hurry, just because other people say they're doing it, doesn't mean they are or that you should be too, everyone moves and develops at different rates and you need to make sure that it is right for you because afterall you only lose your virginity once, and it's not something you'll get back, often your first time can influence your whole sexual outlook

[Buggahh]

Also the other thing I would say is that even if you're safe and use protection etc there's still that risk of STD's or pregnancy, if you don't feel that those are things you'd be able to deal with then don't take the risk

[HahaWaitWhat]

Don't let peer pressure force you into sex, losing your virginity isn't a race or competition. You're young, you have all the time in the world to do those things.

[HunterBlue]

Why are you nervous? Is there a contest at your school? I don't blame you then you'd better get on that, dude.

Wait. You say there IS no contest? Well then want do you care? You're not gonna get a medal for it. It happens when it happens.

And when you get a girl who's willing to have sex with you, she's going to feel better knowing you didn't do it with just anyone to get rid of it.

[kenny89]

i lost mine at 14 and im glad i did cause the longer you are one the harder it gets to tell someone you are.
so if you get the opportunity take it

[Trinity_15]

Your not alone. Many teenagers don't know when to lose their virginity. They think they have to lose it. Because other teens are. Don't give in to peer pressure, you should lose your virginity when you and your partner are honestly ready. Me and my girlfriend lost our virginity to each other because we love each other and thought it was time. if done right sex is a bonding experience that can bring you and your partner closer. So its up to you, you could lose your virginity to a meaningless one nght stand or you can lose it to the person that you love.

[HockeyLovesMe]

come to my town people here cant even date propper till like 16 so we are all the same :D

[Jamesison]

When the time is right you will . Do not rush into anything...

[ChrisFromKY]

Don't worry about it bro. It will happen when it's meant to happen. No set age imo.

[Synyster Shadows]

When you've met the right girl and you both feel ready. Don't rush it.

[Swagging god]

Yea don't rush it the right time is when you have found someone who you care about and who cares about you. Remember you can only loose it once make sure it is something you will remember in gladness not in regret.

[Gustave_the_Croc]

I'm 15 and most of my friends at school haven't even had a girlfriend. Calm ya Farm mate. Your dick don't need to shag no girl just yet. Get a hobby or go play with yo action figures or something. If you wan't sex now then I feel sorry for you. Yeah sure I want it too, everybody does. But I have the self respect to say hey "no man you keep snake in yo pants until your 18" Like a boss. So I don't want to actually do it. And chances are whatever girl you eventually do shag, then you probably wont really love her. You'll just do it cause you let your adolescent mind get to you. You need to be in control of your urges. I am.

[randomnessqueen]

dont feel left behind, its not a contest or fad.
dont just throw it away.
wait

[McAK101]

Just wait until the time is right. Don't rush anything. You have all the time in the world to make this decision.

[GigglyAbby]

I agree don't feel left out because sex is a serious issue and if you elect to do it too early -- you may be a father in High School -- you may contract or spread a STI -- HIV/AIDS. You'll know when you're ready and IF it's later than everyone else -- who cares?

[Altiier]

Lost mine a few months ago I'm 14. But it didn't effect me at all, Im an Atheist sooo I don't know how you feel about it religiously, do what feels right :)

[caliguy]

no worries mate.. it will present itself when you and your partner are ready. I will say as a guy try to stop worrying about it or pressing the issue and it will happen very fast.