14 and not hit puberty. Girl Problems

[Slothwispererer]

Hi! I am 14 and I have not yet hit puberty. I have a little bit of hair round my man area but non anywhere else. I fear I may not finish puberty till I am in my 20's. I like this girl and I am a bit nervous to ask her out incase she wants todo any sexual stuffs. Any advice? :confused:

[Avacon]

If you've got any hair there (which isn't just regular body hair), then you've likely hit puberty. If you're able to get boners, same. You should start developing more soon...

She will probably notice you're nervous, and might not ask you that kind of thing... If you two aren't girlfriend-boyfriend, then that would also make it less likely.

When you get more confident, after you've developed a bit, you could make the first move... If she makes a move before then, try to either say you're not sure, or, if you feel like it, you could go ahead. You never know, you could be more developed than you think you are.

Sorry that I'm not much help. :P

[Slothwispererer]

If you've got any hair there (which isn't just regular body hair), then you've likely hit puberty. If you're able to get boners, same. You should start developing more soon...

She will probably notice you're nervous, and might not ask you that kind of thing... If you two aren't girlfriend-boyfriend, then that would also make it less likely.

When you get more confident, after you've developed a bit, you could make the first move... If she makes a move before then, try to either say you're not sure, or, if you feel like it, you could go ahead. You never know, you could be more developed than you think you are.

Sorry that I'm not much help. :P

thanks a lot man that really helped :)

[Avacon]

thanks a lot man that really helped :)

I hope so.

Don't feel too worried about it! If she's a good person (yes, I know this sounds cheesy) then she should understand. If she's one of those people who are just kinda... hot, but not particularly caring, then maybe they're not the best for you to be with. xD

They should understand that you're going through changes - they've either gone through (or are still going through, or will go through) changes themselves.

[LunarScorpio]

Fine mate,

Girls are interested in personality, not your dick size and amount of hair. If you get together with her, it will still be a while befre anything happens.

It is all good mate

[johnsmith1]

Don't worry, it sounds like youve started. The things towards the end tend to be leg hair, chest hair and stuff like that, which aren't really important to a relationship. Also, there's a lot more to a relationship to just the sexual stuff. Enjoy the walks, the cinema, the holding hands, and maybe a quick snog. Everything else will come given time!

[sartbimpson55]

Decline the sexual stuff!

[Jasperf]

Hi! I am 14 and I have not yet hit puberty. I have a little bit of hair round my man area but non anywhere else. I fear I may not finish puberty till I am in my 20's. I like this girl and I am a bit nervous to ask her out incase she wants todo any sexual stuffs. Any advice? :confused:

Well
Considering you have hair around your 'man area' with is actually called
Pubic area and the hair pubic hair , what so you think the name of puberty is related too? Yes you have started pubity otherwise you woulsny have pubic hair. Once puberty hits it all happens pretty quick, and all the major changes eg penis size and Hight happen before 15/16