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Φρανκομβριτ
May 6th, 2013, 09:00 AM
Hi there!

So I've been doing a lot of thinking lately about my own journey as a gay teen. I'm curious as to what your experiences are! Please include your Sex, age, and region (Province/state and/or country)



Orientation:
Age realised:
How you realised:
How did you accept it:
How did your friends accept it:
How did your family accept it:

Are you religious?
If yes, religion:
If yes, how accepting was your congregation?

What did you know about homosexuality before realising?
How do you feel about your sexuality?
Have you ever been bullied?
If yes, how often?
If yes, how often due to sexuality?

Would you change your orientation if you could?
Has your orientation effected your mood?
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself?
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation?

Extra comments/information:



Thanks for the information guys :)

Wonder.
May 6th, 2013, 09:36 AM
(Sorry my answers aren't bold/colored. I'm on my phone.)

Orientation: Gay
Age realised: Seventh grade I called myself bi, eighth grade I was completly confused, nitnth grade I finally accepted it.
How you realised: I didn't know it was possible to be gay, but I one day just realized I acted differently around attractive guys.
How did you accept it: I stuggled throughout eighth grade, but eighth grade is when I learned how to not care what people think so it wasn't too hard.
How did your friends accept it: They didn't care
How did your family accept it: Never told them, but I think they know

Are you religious? No, but my parents think I'm Catholic
If yes, religion: (see above)
If yes, how accepting was your congregation? They don't know

What did you know about homosexuality before realising? I saw two girls kissing on TV but I never really thought anything of it. I didn't know it was possible to love the same gender.
How do you feel about your sexuality? Pretty good. I don't really care.
Have you ever been bullied? No
If yes, how often? N/A
If yes, how often due to sexuality? N/A

Would you change your orientation if you could? Right now, no. I can't tell you how I'd answer tomorrow though.
Has your orientation effected your mood? Of course. It's made me sad at times, but nothing permanent.
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? No
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? No

Extra comments/information: None

Harley Quinn
May 6th, 2013, 10:19 AM
Sex: Female
Age: 17
Place: London, UK.

Orientation: Lesbian
Age realised: 11
How you realised: I had this massive crush on a girl and I thought I was mental, however, I then realised how attractive girls were.
How did you accept it: It took a long while, especially because my friends would tell me I was gay before I even said anything, so I dealt with that first and then the rest just became natural. However, it did take me a few years to finally be okay with it all.
How did your friends accept it: They already knew so that wasn't an issue.
How did your family accept it: My dad is fine with it, however, my mum not so much. She chooses to ignore it.

Are you religious? No.
If yes, religion:
If yes, how accepting was your congregation?

What did you know about homosexuality before realising? I knew about it, but I didn't really have an opinion of it.
How do you feel about your sexuality? I'm 100% fabulous.
Have you ever been bullied? Yes.
If yes, how often? It went on for about a year, but now, no one says anything.
If yes, how often due to sexuality? It was mainly about my sexuality.

Would you change your orientation if you could? I used to want to, tried everything I could to change it, however, I realised that I couldn't so I accepted it.
Has your orientation effected your mood? It didn't.
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? Yes.
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? No.

Atonement
May 6th, 2013, 11:15 AM
Forenote: I'm only filling out a survey because I like you. Otherwise, these annoy me. :) Miss you.

Orientation: Gay.
Age realized: Realized I was different around 7. Identified the difference as gay around 12.
How you realized: I wasn't like other boys. I wasn't interested in what interested others. As I got older, I found myself almost polar to many boys and only hung with girls, but not because I liked them, rather because I was more like them.
How did you accept it: I accepted it from the beginning really. I knew who I was. I was okay with who I was. It would've been easier to be straight, but that's not who I am.
How did your friends accept it: I came out at 18, after leaving high school. I went to school in a small town where I was the only gay student, so coming out wouldn't've done any good but augment unwanted attention/harassment. Most my friends I have now have only know me as gay. The few I have from high school either are super supportive or don't really acknowledge it (but don't fight it).
How did your family accept it: 100% on board.

Are you religious? Not anymore.
If yes, religion: Formerly Christian. Currently agnostic.
If yes, how accepting was your congregation? I came out after I had a falling out with God. Therefore, the congregation doesn't see me much, so they don't really care, it seems.

What did you know about homosexuality before realizing? Not much. People called me "gay" as an insult before I had any concept of what gay was. I saw it as something negative to be called, but not a bad thing entirely.
How do you feel about your sexuality? Loud and proud.
Have you ever been bullied? During high school, yeah.
If yes, how often? Pretty often. Multiple times a week.
If yes, how often due to sexuality? Every.

Would you change your orientation if you could? No.
Has your orientation effected your mood? It did in the past. Nowadays it doesn't.
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? Yes.
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? Yes.

Extra comments/information: x

Φρανκομβριτ
May 6th, 2013, 11:16 AM
Some powerful stuff here! Thanks a lot guys. Look froward to hearing how others have experienced this.

jayyy-lmao
May 6th, 2013, 01:11 PM
Well, I'm a girl and I live in Ireland, I'm thirteen.
Orientation: Bisexual
Age realised: Thirteen
How you realised: I realised I had a crush on my best friend, then realised I found other girls attractive along with guys.
How did you accept it: I just said to myself, If you are you are, you can't change that, and accepted it.
How did your friends accept it: The ones that know so far accept me for who I am and don't care at all.
How did your family accept it: My parents don't mind. It doesn't affect them anyway.

Are you religious? Nope.
If yes, religion:
If yes, how accepting was your congregation?

What did you know about homosexuality before realising? I knew there were people who liked the same sex/both sexes, and I always felt it was ok, but gay/bi people always unsettled me a bit, I regret to say.
How do you feel about your sexuality? I feel ok with who I am. I am proud to be me.
Have you ever been bullied? Yeah.
If yes, how often? Most days.
If yes, how often due to sexuality? I'm only coming out tomorrow, but my estimation would be most days.

Would you change your orientation if you could? No. I love who I am.
Has your orientation effected your mood? A little, because I'm scared of coming out.
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? No. Thankfully.
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? Yeah, sorta.

justin 13
May 6th, 2013, 02:46 PM
Orientation: GAY
Age realised: ages ago.
How you realised: I dont know I always like boys.
How did you accept it: I'm gay.
How did your friends accept it: they dont know
How did your family accept it: dont know either

Are you religious? yes
If yes, religion: Catholic
If yes, how accepting was your congregation? they dont know

What did you know about homosexuality before realising? Never think about it
How do you feel about your sexuality? Im ok
Have you ever been bullied? yeah in 5th. grade
If yes, how often?
If yes, how often due to sexuality? A boy called me faggot, I hit him hard.

Would you change your orientation if you could? nope
Has your orientation effected your mood? uh?
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? no never I AM HAPPY
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? nope

Extra comments/information:

Wonder.
May 6th, 2013, 03:03 PM
I just realized: is the last question supposed to be "Have you lost anyone close to you due to YOUR orientation?" not "their"?

teen.jpg
May 6th, 2013, 03:57 PM
Orientation: Bisexual
Age realised: 11-ish
How you realised: Curiosity in porn
How did you accept it: Convincing myself I couldn't change it
How did your friends accept it: Pretty well actually.
How did your family accept it: Didnt tell them yet.

Are you religious? No
If yes, religion: Atheist
If yes, how accepting was your congregation?

What did you know about homosexuality before realising? Not at all
How do you feel about your sexuality? Confident
Have you ever been bullied? Not really
If yes, how often?
If yes, how often due to sexuality?

Would you change your orientation if you could? No
Has your orientation effected your mood? Sometimes
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? Only once
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? Not exactly close, but yes.

Φρανκομβριτ
May 6th, 2013, 05:14 PM
I just realized: is the last question supposed to be "Have you lost anyone close to you due to YOUR orientation?" not "their"?

No, you read correctly. As in a friend took their life due to bullying, were killed for being gay, etc. Maybe bad phrasing on my part

Bethany
May 6th, 2013, 07:35 PM
Orientation: Bi
Age realised: 10
How you realised: This girl...was attractive
How did you accept it: I never labeled myself as straight. I haven't really had problems with it.
How did your friends accept it: One friend knows, accepts it, was wonderful about it.
How did your family accept it: Don't know - and not going to know at least for a bit over a year

Are you religious? No
If yes, religion:
If yes, how accepting was your congregation?

What did you know about homosexuality before realising? I knew an average amount about homosexulity
How do you feel about your sexuality? I'm neutral about it.
Have you ever been bullied? I used to be
If yes, how often? Not currently, but I used to be often
If yes, how often due to sexuality? Never

Would you change your orientation if you could? I don't think so.
Has your orientation effected your mood? Only when I was frustrated about not telling my friend
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? No
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? No

Faolan
May 7th, 2013, 12:29 AM
Orientation: gay/bi
Age realized: 15
How you realized: I was more attracted to boys than girls
How did you accept it: Well, but I was more worried that others wouldn't
How did your friends accept it: Awesome; many people congratulated me
How did your family accept it: Great

Are you religious? I use religion more as family and community
If yes, religion: Reform jewish
If yes, how accepting was your congregation? My rabbi cheered me on and said I was a great role model

What did you know about homosexuality before realizing? It was completely normal, and most of my friends were gay or bi
How do you feel about your sexuality? It's who i am, and that's all that matters.
Have you ever been bullied? Not yet (crossing fingers!)
If yes, how often?
If yes, how often due to sexuality?

Would you change your orientation if you could? No way
Has your orientation effected your mood? Before I came out, I was really depressed
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? almost
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? no

kissban
May 7th, 2013, 03:40 AM
Orientation: bi
Age realised: maybe 10
How you realised: ?
How did you accept it: good :)
How did your friends accept it: good
How did your family accept it: secret

Are you religious? no
If yes, religion:
If yes, how accepting was your congregation?

What did you know about homosexuality before realising? idk
How do you feel about your sexuality? good
Have you ever been bullied? no
If yes, how often?
If yes, how often due to sexuality?

Would you change your orientation if you could? no
Has your orientation effected your mood? no
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? never
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? no

Extra comments/information: no

lukene
May 7th, 2013, 04:57 AM
Orientation: somewhere between gay and bi... I guess I will find out lol
Age realised: ever since I can remember I was attracted to guys sexually (emotionally came a bit later 10 maybe so probably realised then)
How you realised: a neighbour a little bit older than me used to talk about how hot girls were, and what he thought of when he wanked and I was really confused because I only ever thought of guys like that but I must of known it wasn't 'Normal' because I never said anything.
How did you accept it: I think only like two years ago after watching Mathew Mitcham talking about coming out I was like I'm not the only one, and it made me feel so much better.
How did your friends accept it: I'm not out, because I live in a small town coming out wouldn't exactly help anything. But going on what my friends think about gay people I think they wouldn't care, intact they would probably be happy (they're all girls), pretty sure everyone knows anyway lol.
How did your family accept it:^

Are you religious? Nope
If yes, religion:
If yes, how accepting was your congregation?

What did you know about homosexuality before realising? I knew a little bit because my aunty came out as a lesbian when I was younger.
How do you feel about your sexuality? Sometimes I don't care sometimes I feel that its not fair that I have to deal with all this. I can be a bit dramatic lol.
Have you ever been bullied? Oh yeah
If yes, how often? A little in year 5 increasing in yr 6, yr 7/8 were absolutely horrible, last year it got kinda better and this year has been great, very little:)
If yes, how often due to sexuality? Every time

Would you change your orientation if you could? This probably sounds shallow and offensive but yes, I just really hate the fact that I have to deal with all this extra stress/bullying while trying complete school and go better, I also know some of my family simply will not accept me.
Has your orientation effected your mood? Yes
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? No I'm to big of a soon cant handle pain lol
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? Thankfully no:)

Extra comments/information:

Convoluted one
May 8th, 2013, 05:03 AM
Orientation:gay
Age realised:10
How you realised:just always thought guy were interesting and was attracted to tehm
How did you accept it:i accept it cus i know it is how i am
How did your friends accept it:i have only told my BF and he was fine
How did your family accept it:

Are you religious?yes
If yes, religion:christian
If yes, how accepting was your congregation?havent told them

What did you know about homosexuality before realising?that is was peole of the same sex who like each other
How do you feel about your sexuality?its cool its just part of me
Have you ever been bullied?no one except my BF knows so , no
If yes, how often?
If yes, how often due to sexuality?

Would you change your orientation if you could?hmmm good question, i dont know i think it would make life easier and i know my parents are going to have a hard time with it
Has your orientation effected your mood?no really
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself?no way
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation?no, but there is one boy i have had a crush on for like 4 years and i might tell him

Venrai
May 8th, 2013, 04:35 PM
Orientation: Kinsey 6 flaming gay
Age realised: I always knew.
How you realised: I looked at a dude and just... yeah.
How did you accept it: By living with it for a long time.
How did your friends accept it: They didn't care, most of them are gay anyways.
How did your family accept it: My dad tried to make me a 'manly man straight bro'. That's the worst that's happened so far.

Are you religious? No.

What did you know about homosexuality before realising? Nothing to be honest.
How do you feel about your sexuality? It's kind of bullshit.
Have you ever been bullied? Yeah.
If yes, how often? Not much, maybe 2-3 times a month.
If yes, how often due to sexuality? Always.

Would you change your orientation if you could? Probably. I'd like to live a normal life.
Has your orientation effected your mood? Yeah. It's the reason I'm usually mad.
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? Yes.
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? Not yet. I will, though.

acan1997
May 11th, 2013, 10:28 PM
Loll

mclovin12
May 12th, 2013, 04:35 AM
Orientation: Bisexual
Age realised: Probably around 10
How you realised: Couldn't stop getting feelings about boys :P
How did you accept it: Coming out to my friends
How did your friends accept it: All good :)
How did your family accept it: They don't know

Are you religious?
If yes, religion: Islam
If yes, how accepting was your congregation? Defo not telling them :P I had one Muslim friend who stopped talking to me, but he eventually came around.

What did you know about homosexuality before realising? Brought up believing it was a big, big sin.
How do you feel about your sexuality? Was in complete denial caus of how I was raised.
Have you ever been bullied? Thankfully nope.
If yes, how often? ^
If yes, how often due to sexuality? ^

Would you change your orientation if you could? Be straight
Has your orientation effected your mood? Bit of depression here and there...
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? Nope
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? At first, but I'm friends with them again.

Extra comments/information: Islam and sexuality do not mix :P

karl
May 12th, 2013, 05:55 AM
Age: 16
sex: male
Location: Barcelona


Orientation: Gay
Age realised: 13
How you realised: I was messing around with a friend and realised I enjoyed it.
How did you accept it: I didn't at first
How did your friends accept it: They were fine
How did your family accept it: Badly. My father threw me out

Are you religious? Not very
If yes, religion: Roman Catholic
If yes, how accepting was your congregation? I don't know.

What did you know about homosexuality before realising? Not very much. They were 'queer'!
How do you feel about your sexuality? Wasn't too happy
Have you ever been bullied? No
If yes, how often?
If yes, how often due to sexuality?

Would you change your orientation if you could? Not now, maybe before
Has your orientation effected your mood? very often
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? yes
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? no

Extra comments/information:

I was living in England when my father caught me with a friend. He threw me out, and I was in care until my mother got custody of me and we moved to Spain where she has family. I don't know about the congregation in England and here in Spain everyone is fine with me.

pineinchneis
May 12th, 2013, 03:52 PM
Orientation: gay
Age realised: first thought i wasn't straight aged 10 then finally accepted it aged 15
How you realised: five long years of mental torture
How did you accept it: after a long time
How did your friends accept it: fine
How did your family accept it: parents were mostly good but im not sure my mum really. understands i didn't chose to be gay
Are you religious? not at all
If yes, religion:
If yes, how accepting was your congregation?
What did you know about homosexuality before realising? nothing, didn't even know there was such a thing as it
How do you feel about your sexuality? proud
Have you ever been bullied? yes
If yes, how often? occasionally
If yes, how often due to sexuality? all the time
Would you change your orientation if you could? no
Has your orientation effected your mood? yes
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? nearly
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? no
Extra comments/information:

Abyssal Echo
May 13th, 2013, 02:08 AM
Orientation: Gay.
Age realized: Realized I was different around 9 or 10
How you realized: I knew I wasn't like other boys Because they were starting to get interested in girls and I wasn't interested.
How did you accept it: I accepted it from the beginning really.
How did your friends accept it: I came out at 13, The few friends I have were not surprised when it came out so it wasn't a big deal.
How did your family accept it: my mom freaked. but things have gotten better since I told her.
Are you religious? Not anymore.
If yes, religion: Christian / protestant.
If yes, how accepting was your congregation ? I don't go to church much. No one has said anything to me so I don't know.

What did you know about homosexuality before realizing? nothing
How do you feel about your sexuality? Alright
Have you ever been bullied? yeah but more because I'm an outsider then because of my sexuality.
If yes, how often? a few times a week.
If yes, how often due to sexuality?

Would you change your orientation if you could? No.
Has your orientation effected your mood? nope
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? nope
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? No

dshort670
August 25th, 2013, 08:02 PM
Re: Gay youth survey
Orientation: Gay.
Age realized: Realized 8
How you realized: I knew I wasn't like other boys Because they were starting to get interested in girls and I wasn't interested.
How did you accept it: I accepted it from the beginning really.
How did your friends accept it: I came out at 10 The few friends I have were not surprised when it came out so it wasn't a big deal.
How did your family accept it: my mom freaked. but things have gotten better since I told her.
Are you religious? Yes
If yes, religion: Christian
If yes, how accepting was your congregation ? I don't go to church much. No one has said anything to me so I don't know.

What did you know about homosexuality before realizing? nothing
How do you feel about your sexuality? Alright
Have you ever been bullied? yeah but more because I'm an outsider then because of my sexuality.
If yes, how often? a few times a week.
If yes, how often due to sexuality?

Would you change your orientation if you could? Yes
Has your orientation effected your mood? nope
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? nope
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? No

Faolan
August 26th, 2013, 10:40 PM
Orientation: Emotionally/sexually attracted to boys, emotionally attracted to girls.
Age realized: 15
How you realized: I had a crush on a boy and on a girl, but more with the boy
How did you accept it: just did, I cried for five minutes, but I realized it wasn't something to cry over. I live in a liberal town, and now I'm my biggest supporter.
How did your friends accept it: Extremely well
How did your family accept it: Ditto

Are you religious? Not very
If yes, religion: I'm agnostic, but I was raised Jewishly
If yes, how accepting was your congregation? Very

What did you know about homosexuality before realizing? Didn't think much about it.
How do you feel about your sexuality? wish I liked girls sexually instead of just emotionally.
Have you ever been bullied? not yet (crossing fingers!)
If yes, how often?
If yes, how often due to sexuality?

Would you change your orientation if you could? just so I was more attracted to girls, but I'd still like boys
Has your orientation effected your mood? my male crush's ignorance has made me sad, but besides that, no.
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? no
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? no

Axw_JD
August 27th, 2013, 02:24 AM
Orientation: Gay
Age realised: 12, but didn't quite accept it until very recently.
How you realised: IDK, I just knew deep inside.
How did you accept it: Couldn't lie to myself any more.
How did your friends accept it: Only told my best friend. He was supportive and reassured me he accepted me and that I shouldn't make a big deal about it, however he also said he never wanted to talk about personal stuff.
How did your family accept it: Haven't told them. I know the day I do will be the last day I will see them though.

What did you know about homosexuality before realising? That it was a horrible, disgusting thing to be that should be hidden.
How do you feel about your sexuality? I accept myself but I am still not completely comfortable in my skin.
Have you ever been bullied? Yeah
If yes, how often? Almost all the time.
If yes, how often due to sexuality? Since nobody other than my best friend knows, not much. A couple people thought I was 2 years ago and bullied me nonstop for it though, made my life a living hell.

Would you change your orientation if you could? Yeah. Sadly being gay isn't safe...
Has your orientation effected your mood? I guess so?
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? Not my orientation itself, but the depression that came with it I guess...
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? I'm the only gay person I know...

Laquifa
August 27th, 2013, 09:40 AM
Male, 17, Virginia, US.

Orientation: Gay
Age realised: 10-11. I can't really remember.
How you realised: Porn. Plus I had a crush on this guy, so yea.
How did you accept it: I just did. I saw no problem with it.
How did your friends accept it: They don't know.
How did your family accept it: They REALLY don't know.

Are you religious? Nope. If I had to label myself, I would consider myself agnostic.
If yes, religion: n/a
If yes, how accepting was your congregation? n/a

What did you know about homosexuality before realising? I didn't have a problem with it.
How do you feel about your sexuality? I knew I was fucked. My family is religious.
Have you ever been bullied? Yes.
If yes, how often? Rarely. I stopped giving a fuck, and they stopped.
If yes, how often due to sexuality? Never.

Would you change your orientation if you could? I'm not sure. I found someone I really care about, and I wouldn't change that for the world, but I don't want my family to hate me, so yea.
Has your orientation effected your mood? Not that I know of.
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? No.
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? My cousin is kinda distant from the rest of the family because they are religious, and has grouped me with them.

Extra comments/information: Not really. Nice survey I guess...

sqishy
August 27th, 2013, 12:37 PM
Orientation: Gay

Age realised: 14

How you realised: When I found many guys attractive, and had a deep crush on one in my school for 4 years.

How did you accept it: With difficulty; just coming to my feelings and emotions fully and no hiding it with myself anymore.

How did your friends accept it: They are fine with it; no problems yet.


How did your family accept it: Also fine with it.

Are you religious? No.

If yes, religion: ---

If yes, how accepting was your congregation? ---

What did you know about homosexuality before realising? That it was where people of the same gender find each other attractive and have sex. I was homophobic when I first saw what it was, but then I didn't see it as something bad after a few years.

How do you feel about your sexuality? Accepting it as part of me. Before June
I was having self-conflict and denial about it for years, and thought something was wrong with me at first.

Have you ever been bullied? Yes

If yes, how often? Mostly in 1st and 2nd year, every few days. I put up this psychological wall against insults since 5th class and it made no real effect on me since then, apart from being a nuisance. Stopped in 4th year.

If yes, how often due to sexuality? Never. Nobody in the school knows (yet)

Would you change your orientation if you could? No. If I did I wouldn't be me anymore.

Has your orientation affected your mood? Yes, a lot.

Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? Well I've banged my head against the wall a few times out of frustration.

Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? Not yet, probably because I've only come out to 5 people so far.

The Enderwoman
August 27th, 2013, 01:34 PM
Orientation:Lesbian
Age realised:11
How you realised: Just knew
How did you accept it: Honestly, youtubers helped me accept it
How did your friends accept it: They're cool with it
How did your family accept it: They don't know

Are you religious? Nope
If yes, religion:
If yes, how accepting was your congregation?

What did you know about homosexuality before realising? I supported it before
How do you feel about your sexuality? I've accepted it
Have you ever been bullied? No
If yes, how often?
If yes, how often due to sexuality?

Would you change your orientation if you could? I used to want to but now, no
Has your orientation effected your mood? No
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? Yes
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? No

The Flash
August 27th, 2013, 08:52 PM
Sex: Yes Please. Loljk. Male.
Location: CanadaCurrent Age: 15
Orientation: Bisexual
Age realised: 14
How you realised: I always had a thing for guys, but I guess I found out the right term and stuff because of VT.
How did you accept it: I just accepted it, It doesn't bother me. I like guys and girls, so why shouldn't I accept it?
How did your friends accept it: I only told one friend, she doesn't care. We still have the same normal relationship.
How did your family accept it: Not out to them.
Are you religious?
If yes, religion: I was raised Christian, but it wasn't too serious.
If yes, how accepting was your congregation? n/a

What did you know about homosexuality before realising? Not sure? I pretty much only knew about Gays and Lesbians.
How do you feel about your sexuality? I LOVE IT.
Have you ever been bullied? Umm, I guess. People call me "fag", because I "act gay", but I don't give 2 shits.
If yes, how often? Like at times.
If yes, how often due to sexuality? Never, cause im still in the closet.

Would you change your orientation if you could? Heck No. I could never change the fact that I like guys.
Has your orientation effected your mood? Im always in a bad mood, but whatever.
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? Nope, and I never would.
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? Nope, cause I only told one friend, and she's okay with it.
Extra comments/information:
You should've asked if we were in or out of the closet.

PJOloverblue
March 3rd, 2015, 05:09 PM
Orientation: Bisexual but prefers girls.
Age realised: 11.
How you realised: I had a crush on my friend and I also found girls hot with clothes or in their underwear.
How did you accept it: I don't know I just knew that it was me and I couldn't change and I guess I have always been accepting of myself.
How did your friends accept it: I only told two but then took it back, but they were supportive.
How did your family accept it: Haven't told them.

Are you religious? Yes.
If yes, religion: Christian.
If yes, how accepting was your congregation? Haven't told them.

What did you know about homosexuality before realising? My mom told me about it.
How do you feel about your sexuality? Fine.
Have you ever been bullied? No.
If yes, how often?
If yes, how often due to sexuality?

Would you change your orientation if you could? No.
Has your orientation effected your mood? It made me sad and angry before but now, no.
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? No.
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? No.

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Luminous
March 3rd, 2015, 07:13 PM
Orientation: Bisexual but prefers girls.
Age realised: 11.
How you realised: I had a crush on my friend and I also found girls hot with clothes or in their underwear.
How did you accept it: I don't know I just knew that it was me and I couldn't change and I guess I have always been accepting of myself.
How did your friends accept it: I only told two but then took it back, but they were supportive.
How did your family accept it: Haven't told them.

Are you religious? Yes.
If yes, religion: Christian.
If yes, how accepting was your congregation? Haven't told them.

What did you know about homosexuality before realising? My mom told me about it.
How do you feel about your sexuality? Fine.
Have you ever been bullied? No.
If yes, how often?
If yes, how often due to sexuality?

Would you change your orientation if you could? No.
Has your orientation effected your mood? It made me sad and angry before but now, no.
Has your orientation ever caused you to harm yourself? No.
Have you lost anyone close to you due to their orientation? No.

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