it's wrong, but feels so right. OPINIONS NEEDED.

[mammolito96]

Hey guys, so i posted for help on this subject earlier in the year. here's the back story:

so theres is this guy at my school and he has recently asked me so have sex with him (he's a popular kid, and i'm just the average guy). he is straight and curious and only asked me because he knows i'm gay. he has sent me nudes and i have sent them back. he has now started sending me videos of him masturbating and anally masturbating. i have sent some back.

NOW we actually have met up twice and engaged in oral sex, we also tried to have anal but i realised i wasn't ready. both times it has happened i have felt really shit afterwards and i have felt a bit sick. but in the moment it feels awesome and i really enjoy it until its over. i feel like hes kinda used me, which he probably has.

i know i'm being stupid and naive but i just keep going back. everyone's thoughts on this are appreciated. i just feel so desperate to have sex. please dont judge me.

[johnsmith1]

It does sound like you have strong feelings for him, and yes in the moment the feelings can be awsome. You need to sit with him and figure out where this relationship is going, and weather he is doing it out of curiosty, or to see if he really likes it. In terms of anal, if you take the relationship to that level, hopefully you will know when you are ready to try it, and not feel that bad. Just don't push yourself into something you don't want to do.

[LunarScorpio]

He has absued you a little, but ultimatly it is your choice.

That he knows you are gay, he is just taking the piss, but also probs enjoying doing it with you. If you strongly feel it is wrong, stop.

(and a side note, sharing images and videos is child porn and is illegal, just thought I would let you know)

[Krash9]

If you dont feel comfy then dont do it. i know ive done stuff just to be cool before i was ready and now i regret it. dude, you are in no rush. if you think its not what you are looking for then maybe this kind of casual hooking up isnt for you.

[FergusDunn]

What do you feel is wrong?

Him using you - feeling used or the sex part.

Maybe you have form other relationships -
You say you feel sick after - what makes you feel sick - like is it the actual act of oral
maybe the lube on a condom or just the taste of it makes you feel sick.

[MuscleTeen98]

It does sound like you have strong feelings for him, and yes in the moment the feelings can be awsome. You need to sit with him and figure out where this relationship is going, and weather he is doing it out of curiosty, or to see if he really likes it. In terms of anal, if you take the relationship to that level, hopefully you will know when you are ready to try it, and not feel that bad. Just don't push yourself into something you don't want to do.

I agree completely.. Props man.

[The_Hunger_Games]

It's a scientific fact that during sex partial judgment is lost... Which means that you won't feel bad about what your doing in most cases. It seems like you don't really like this guy so I think you should move on. Oh and for him to say he is straight, I don't think so. He is doing a little more than experimenting with you. He kinda seems like he wants a relationship with you. Hoped this helped a bit. GOOD LUCK!!!

[radioactive]

Maybe its becuase u know ur being used but u like the sex part

[justinglives]

I agree completely.. Props man.

Agree withis totally.
If ure having swx with him, u must be getting something out of it if you can get off with him. Mihht be u r xurious about.anal too.
It might be too like watching porn and jerking off. REALLY horny when it starts, you get off, amd then kinda loose interest in the afterglow.
Like everyone said, do whats comfortable and no more. Set YOUR boundries and maybe youll feel better about the experience.

[xmojox]

Hey guys, so i posted for help on this subject earlier in the year. here's the back story:

so theres is this guy at my school and he has recently asked me so have sex with him (he's a popular kid, and i'm just the average guy). he is straight and curious and only asked me because he knows i'm gay. he has sent me nudes and i have sent them back. he has now started sending me videos of him masturbating and anally masturbating. i have sent some back.

NOW we actually have met up twice and engaged in oral sex, we also tried to have anal but i realised i wasn't ready. both times it has happened i have felt really shit afterwards and i have felt a bit sick. but in the moment it feels awesome and i really enjoy it until its over. i feel like hes kinda used me, which he probably has.

i know i'm being stupid and naive but i just keep going back. everyone's thoughts on this are appreciated. i just feel so desperate to have sex. please dont judge me.

Is it just you doing him or is it mutual?

[sartbimpson55]

You say he's popular? I hate to be negative but doesn't that whole scenario sound suspicious to any one?

[justinglives]

Rereading this.......
Who is doing who anal? Or is it mutual? (both tops and both bottomed?)

[mammolito96]

Is it just you doing him or is it mutual?

it's just me giving him oral.

[chezhans]

You say he's popular? I hate to be negative but doesn't that whole scenario sound suspicious to any one?

Actually to be blunt...it does to me

[Thomas01]

Do whatever makes you feel most comfortable. If you feel like you are being used, ask him to reciprocate. If he doesn't want to then fine let it be. But it might be best to end things.

I get how you feel nervous about anal sex, is it your first time? If it is, make sure that you dp it with someone who will be gentle and caring. Don't be too willing to have sex with just anyone. I mean we all get horny and sure have fun if you want, but just make sure you can trust him

[crispxtra]

you should talk to him and say, "r u just in it for the sex or do u have feelings for me?" i say if he is using u for sex and u wanna have sex, use him too. its like a friends with benefits situation. and if ur not ready for sex, then dont have sex, dont let anyone force u to do something u wouldnt want to do.

[Lego]

Yeah he may be curious but if its only you giving and more than once he's just using you to feel good and it sounds like you don't like it so id quit

[Swagging god]

I'm straight I've given oral before with another guy and have given handjobs but I say do what you feel is comfortable.

[Helloworld29]

Ok I think he might have used you. You have probably heard that already or know that already. I have to I love your profile picture thing.

[Troy35216]

he is straight and he has sent me nudes and he has now started sending me videos of him masturbating and anally masturbating.

we have engaged in oral sex, we also tried to have anal
One of us doesn't know what "straight" means.

he can say whatever he wants but he is obviously into messing around with you. are you into messing around with him? If you aren't, then stop. If you are, you need to decide if you're okay being his dirty little secret or if you want something more honest with him.

[TaylrJ]

Just like how you said about "being desperate for sex".. Obviously, he is too! You and your friend are kinda going through the exact same thing I am. I'm bi and really wanna have sex and all the time, I hear about this kid in my grade being gay.. Now that I think he is, I kinda wanna go to his house and hang out. But now, why do you think I wanna come over?? Duhh! Sex! I wanna just try it already. Lol! And honestly, I don't wanna be friends with him either. And no, I wouldn't be using him, and you aren't being used either. I mean, you and that boy probably won't end up being good friends. But you two just wanna try it out, so that's exactly what ya'll are doing.. It's kinda like a one night stand, friends with benefits, type deal. Just have fun and don't expect anything more outta knowing him. It'll all probably just be sex..

Also, I understand that you loose interest like that. It's normal (with experimenting and all).. It's like you really wanna do it at first, but then after you orgasm, you don't care at all. If you still continue to do it with him, maybe it'd be best to orgasm later after sex, like when you're not with him anymore. Or just get use to the sick feeling cause overtime it won't happen anymore.. Good luck!

[teen.jpg]

I think that whenever you become desperate for something, you should stop.

[xmojox]

it's just me giving him oral.

If you're happy with that keep on. I personally wouldnt though. That should be a thing he reciprocates. I definitely wouldnt let him have my butt, though.

[Krash9]

One of us doesn't know what "straight" means.


Dude labels suck tho. they force people into boxes they dont fit into.

[nicknack100]

Everything can seem awesome when it's happening but the repercussions can be dire.

[Troy35216]

Dude labels suck tho. they force people into boxes they dont fit into. then don't use labels at all. that's better than using them wrong.

[Catholic Guy]

Yeah I have felt the exact same way, no one can make you do anything you don't want to, just remember it's YOUR body

[Rocketsnail]

It's a scientific fact that during sex partial judgment is lost... Which means that you won't feel bad about what your doing in most cases.

It all makes sense to me now

[kthon50]

Go with you gut bro but dont let him hurt you.

[saxophone132]

Seems As If Your His Sex Toy

[llwoahll]

Make a big scene slap him and ask him if he really wants u

[warriorofthewater12]

If you feel like you're ready than you should do it and enjoy it.

[jaxian rhyder]

You say he's popular? I hate to be negative but doesn't that whole scenario sound suspicious to any one?
Just a bit
It's a scientific fact that during sex partial judgment is lost... Which means that you won't feel bad about what your doing in most cases. It seems like you don't really like this guy so I think you should move on. Oh and for him to say he is straight, I don't think so. He is doing a little more than experimenting with you. He kinda seems like he wants a relationship with you. Hoped this helped a bit. GOOD LUCK!!!
He sounds a bit more than curios
you should talk to him and say, "r u just in it for the sex or do u have feelings for me?" i say if he is using u for sex and u wanna have sex, use him too. its like a friends with benefits situation. and if ur not ready for sex, then dont have sex, dont let anyone force u to do something u wouldnt want to do.
Exactly

Yeah I have felt the exact same way, no one can make you do anything you don't want to, just remember it's YOUR body
Don't let him control u

[Michael_6]

I have had the same sort of thing happen, other then he has not asked me to have sex with him. After that the guy told his mates and ever since I have been aggravated by one person because I sent some nudes but they don't know that they also did

[Santiago1618]

He's definetly using you

[batwomr.smithshane]

Bro im straight and i say the cool kid is bi so yall should really talk abt that... other than that idk ive never engaged in sex with a guy