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[mynameisjane]

when i'm with my boyfriend, just feeling his fingers caressing my arm or hands gets me really wet. like, seriously wet, like i feel like i peed my pants. it makes me feel kinda gross. does anyone else have this problem? is there anything i can do to make it stop?

[RaisingSand]

Not really. :/ On the bright side, it means you're boyfriends' touch is working. If it's really a problem for you (and yeah, the wet feeling in your panties feels kinda uncomfortable and gross) try using a small, discreet panty-liner, you can get them from any supermarket. :)

[Lifesreject]

Yer i get that somethimes to. Its kinda bad when your all wet makes you feel dirty but yeah its good that his touch is good. I hope he is really special for you.

[eskimogal700]

yeah i got that a few times

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Umm I hope you don't mind but I was kinda uncertain about this... what really makes a girl "wet". I mean do different things make it more "intense" per se, or is it usually the same amount regularly. I was just wondering because of the whole difference guys can have with erections and ejaculating.

[mynameisjane]

for me, just being with him with his arm around me makes me wet. and then when he runs his fingers softly across my hand, i feel a tingling in my lower abdomen, its more intense. so i guess the more intimate we are, the more intense. i guess with guys you're either horny or not? but with girls, or at least me, theres slightly horny, horny, and about to orgasm horny.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

No actually we can feel EXACTLY the same! At first we can just start to be turned on (maybe erection) THEN we may start to precum (only a small amount) and if we're turned on enough we can be aroused enough to ALMOST orgasm! We may be more alike than most think!

[Glasgow]

I was like that with my first girlfriend. We could just be kissing and id be precumming, because I was still a noob. Is this one of your first intimate encounters with a guy?

[mynameisjane]

interesting.
actually, yeah, i'm a noob, he's my first real boyfriend.

[introspect]

As I male I can honestly say that, vaginal wetness isn't a bad thing.

But if its uncomfortable you may want a pantie liner.

[Serenity]

As I male I can honestly say that, vaginal wetness isn't a bad thing.

But if its uncomfortable you may want a pantie liner.

..............because...you would know?

[eskimogal700]

also,if your underwear stays wet, it could put you at risk for a yeast infection. so be careful.

[Glasgow]

interesting.
actually, yeah, i'm a noob, he's my first real boyfriend.

Ahh yes just as I expected. All you can do is just continue doing it until you slowly get more used to it and can go further. As for the time being just wear a pad or something

[cry4eva]

i get the feeling to
it makes me want to go to the bathroom to make sure i didnt really wet my pants
it makes me feel like everyone is looking at me

[pacnorthwestguy]

No actually we can feel EXACTLY the same! At first we can just start to be turned on (maybe erection) THEN we may start to precum (only a small amount) and if we're turned on enough we can be aroused enough to ALMOST orgasm! We may be more alike than most think!

That reminds me of what happened to me this last summer just a few days after my 16th birthday. My girlfriend and I were messing around (just some kissing) and I got turned on, had an erection, and before I knew it, I had ejaculated in the jeans I was wearing, and all without having touched it. :eek: Kind of annoying as to what hormones can do on "overload".

[Maverick]

That reminds me of what happened to me this last summer just a few days after my 16th birthday. My girlfriend and I were messing around (just some kissing) and I got turned on, had an erection, and before I knew it, I had ejaculated in the jeans I was wearing, and all without having touched it. :eek: Kind of annoying as to what hormones can do on "overload".
Ok this is the girls puberty forum. This isn't about guys and what happen to you.

[KatetheGreat]

when i'm with my boyfriend, just feeling his fingers caressing my arm or hands gets me really wet. like, seriously wet, like i feel like i peed my pants. it makes me feel kinda gross. does anyone else have this problem? is there anything i can do to make it stop?

You could be one of those people who get sexual pleasure from any part of their body.
Like my thread, I Think I Love Boys Too Much..., I get turned on just by the sight of a guy. You'd have to read it for more details.
But any who, I don't think there's really anything you can do about it.
You may be a nymphomaniac. Who knows? I say you indulge and appreciate the gift you've been given.
Then again, I'm hornier than the average teenage girl and love sex just as much, so my advice is a little bias. :D

[sweet toffee]

hi im new to this. the deal is.... i seem to get relly wet when my boyfriend touches me and i dont like him going down my pants coz im so wet. i just feel dirty and icky. my question: do lads not mind that sorter thing or something because it really seems to grosse me out :s

[Gumleaf]

hi im new to this. the deal is.... i seem to get relly wet when my boyfriend touches me and i dont like him going down my pants coz im so wet. i just feel dirty and icky. my question: do lads not mind that sorter thing or something because it really seems to grosse me out :s


hi sweet toffee and welcome to vt. just to let you know that if you have a new question, just create your own thread rather then add it to another thread. that way the answers will be directed to you and not the original poster.

to answer your question now. from my male perspective, i don't mind that sought of thing and it would make me feel good inside that i'm making, in my case my girlfriend, wet and aroused by touching her.

[sweet toffee]

hi sweet toffee and welcome to vt. just to let you know that if you have a new question, just create your own thread rather then add it to another thread. that way the answers will be directed to you and not the original poster.

to answer your question now. from my male perspective, i don't mind that sought of thing and it would make me feel good inside that i'm making, in my case my girlfriend, wet and aroused by touching her.


oh thx for telling me what to do on here :)

and thx for the advice :)