Is it wrong?

[Shroomz547]

So, here's the deal: I got a girlfriend but i later find out she's abstinent. Which I completely respect. I won't pressure her to do anything. And recently me and a friend whom I've been really close to my whole life decided to experiment a little bit. i fingered her to orgasm and she gave me head. We agreed that it was all just for fun but I feel like I need other's opinion on this :/

[SparklingStar]

You need to be open to your girlfriend about what you do sexually. While you may call it experimenting, I would consider it cheating. Talk to your girlfriend and see if she is ok with your FWB. If she isn't cool with it, you need to decide whether you'd rather be with your girlfriend and refrain from sexual behavior, or run loose with the other girl.

[unnamed94]

that was cheating, theres no other way to put it. if you are ok with your gf being abstinent and chose to be with her knowing that, then you cant just go and experiment with other girls. even if it was all just for fun you should tell your gf and see if she is ok with it (which seems really really unlikely).

[Shroomz547]

well shit. now i feel like an asshole

[chezhans]

I am sorry but there is only one word for this. Cheating. I dont know how but you have to sort this out yourself.

[unnamed94]

well shit. now i feel like an asshole

it was wrong but dont feel like you are an asshole. everybody fucks up at some point. do whats right and tell your gf what happened. if she breaks up with you, then just accept it like man and move on. learn from your mistakes

[PinkFloyd]

it was wrong but dont feel like you are an asshole. everybody fucks up at some point. do whats right and tell your gf what happened. if she breaks up with you, then just accept it like man and move on. learn from your mistakes

This guys got it all right...

[Bobbyhill]

Some say experiment but most call it cheating