having feeling for a friend and you dont know if they are gay or bi

[Convoluted one]

ok, i have liked this guy zach since we were both like 12. he goes to my church and he is just soooooo good looking and such a nice guy. he has girlfriends sometimes but other times, some of the things he does seem kinda gay. i dont know if i am ready for a relationship even if he was, but sometimes i just want to tell him how i feel

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Don't. Believe me when I say I learned the hard way. Unless you really know him and trust him, I'd advise letting your feelings pass.

[RyanJF1]

Falling for straight guys will eventually hurt you one way or another. If you tell him, be careful.

[johndjdrummer12]

I agree..Remember there are plenty of fish in the sea and coming out to someone who you don't have total faith in could def backfire

[Danny.Robertson]

I made a mistake of telling someone that I had a crush on a guy and gave a name. Inevitably the guy found out and it went downhill from there. Although the same might not happen to you, be cautious some people might just joke about it and try to be funny (He will if he's a good friend) but be careful.

[Convoluted one]

thanks for the advice guys. i think i will hold off telling him and just enjoy thinking about him

[justin 13]

thanks for the advice guys. i think i will hold off telling him and just enjoy thinking about him


Right thing to do. I had a crush with an str8 boy last week-end. We messed around, did some stuff, and then he dumped me. Now he knows I am gay. He is my neighbor and we have friends on common.

[Convoluted one]

Right thing to do. I had a crush with an str8 boy last week-end. We messed around, did some stuff, and then he dumped me. Now he knows I am gay. He is my neighbor and we have friends on common.

well look at it this way, now you know he says he is straight ,but like to play with boys, so if he tells about you being gay , just tell about what he did. it goes both ways

[Convoluted one]

i got to hang out with my friend after church and it was cool but when he gave me a hug good by i thought i was going to die!!!!!!!! some days i do great and dont want to say a word, but that day i came so close to telling him.

[ItsJustJack]

i got to hang out with my friend after church and it was cool but when he gave me a hug good by i thought i was going to die!!!!!!!! some days i do great and dont want to say a word, but that day i came so close to telling him.

You should talk to him about it, see how he feels about homosexuality and homosexuals... but make sure you dont come out, it might backfire, instead you should bring it up by just casually asking questions about his thoughts on that kinda stuff...but dont be too obvious

[Convoluted one]

i guess i will try what you said