Help and advice needed!!

[Tacky]

Ok, here we go. I have two school friends, Sophie and Michael (not real names). Michael asked Sophie to add him on skype and facebook a few days ago, and last night, Michael wants to have cybersex with Sophie. Sophie freaked out and asked me for help. Sophie is that kind of girl who don't really like sex and would like to remain sexually inactive. Michael said that he has some erectile issues, as he takes antidepressants. He can't really masturbate to porn and he requires some girl who he knows to help him masturbate. Michael describes the urge to cybersex as "pain" and he had to "brb, puke blood out". What should I do to help Sophie?! I'm rly worried about Sophie!

[paulw]

Difficult to tell from your description cause it sounds like a complicated issue. I'm not sure i totally understand the last part about pain, but it sounds like either "Michael" needs to go to his doctor right away or has some serious attention seeking issues.

Either way nothing "Sophie" can do is going to be a good idea. She should tell him he needs his doctor not her, and leave it at that, and then stay well away and dont discuss it with him otherwise it will probably just make it worse.

If it turns into a problem at school in person, she should tell him to stop and consider getting the advice of a trusted member of staff, it sounds like this "Michael" is not very stable.

I wouldnt make it your problem to "fix" tho, or turn it into a massive crisis, sometimes people say dumb stuff without really thinking it through and then it goes away. But the best thing to do at a guess is probably nothing and for her to stay away.

[Tacky]

Thanks, paulw. I'll take ur word for it and see how it goes at school. :)

[Rayquaza]

I do agree with paulw, the boy should talk to a doctor and the girl shouldn't feel pressured into giving him sex for sympathy. Besides, it doesn't make sense, cybersex is basically porn itself, so either he's lying or he just wants sex. He also needs to lay off the antidepressants too as that could have side effects, one of which could be erectile dysfunction, however it is quite unlikely he has erectile dysfunction at this age, which is why he needs to see a doctor if that really is the case.