Making my face smooth and "gay" fun with a friend

[TurboDieselBandit]

If you look at some of my not so good photo album pictures on my profile you'll see that I have relatively smooth skin on my body but not on my face; there are lots of tiny bumps. It's not anything abnormal, just the typical guys face texture. Still, how can I get my face to be smooth and soft?

BTW I don't use a razor.


Also, Idk how many of you saw my thread titled something like "My fantasy just came true" but basically a really good guy friend and I started doing some intense "sexual experimentation". Which lead to BJs, HJs etc. at school and in my room. Of course we loved it but had to make ourselves stop the weekly fun due to our religious beliefs. It's been a few months since the last time but still when we hang out we both usually get uncontrollable boners, the super hard ones that almost hurt. Now things are heating up again and we really want to pick up where we left off. Should I step up and prevent it from happening at all costs, even if we have to distance ourselves a second time? I really want "it" and he really wants me but if we get back into the habit, there's little hope of stopping for moral reasons and that would completely undermine our beliefs, knowingly, a second time.....

....how can something feel so good but be so bad???? How about we change the meaning of good and bad plz......

[lukene]

Its not bad and many other gay/bi people will find that really offensive

[johnsmith1]

If you look at some of my not so good photo album pictures on my profile you'll see that I have relatively smooth skin on my body but not on my face; there are lots of tiny bumps. It's not anything abnormal, just the typical guys face texture. Still, how can I get my face to be smooth and soft?

BTW I don't use a razor.


Also, Idk how many of you saw my thread titled something like "My fantasy just came true" but basically a really good guy friend and I started doing some intense "sexual experimentation". Which lead to BJs, HJs etc. at school and in my room. Of course we loved it but had to make ourselves stop the weekly fun due to our religious beliefs. It's been a few months since the last time but still when we hang out we both usually get uncontrollable boners, the super hard ones that almost hurt. Now things are heating up again and we really want to pick up where we left off. Should I step up and prevent it from happening at all costs, even if we have to distance ourselves a second time? I really want "it" and he really wants me but if we get back into the habit, there's little hope of stopping for moral reasons and that would completely undermine our beliefs, knowingly, a second time.....

....how can something feel so good but be so bad???? How about we change the meaning of good and bad plz......

In terms of the bumps on your face, you're probably at the stage whre you will soon need to start using a razor. There are some moisturiser creams that can then be uses afterwards.

In terms of your friend and religion, I have to state now that I am an atheist (no religious beliefs), though do respect those that do. If I had a friend like you have that I felt that way, I would not have that "moral" struggle that religion seems to bring to these situations. Whilst religeon seems to "teach" that this is right and that is wrong, I like tothink that there is tollerance there to accept people for who they are, and the feelings that they have. I hope that you can resolve those feelings and accept yourself for what you want to be.

Good luck.

[The_Hunger_Games]

D what you r comfortable with if your Christian god will forgive you and I'm sure any other religion will forgive you too. I would do it

[TurboDieselBandit]

Its not bad and many other gay/bi people will find that really offensive

I'm sorry, I don't think anyone can or will find offense in my thread. They might disagree with it but there's nothing offensive in least bit. Your free to prove otherwise.



In terms of the bumps on your face, you're probably at the stage whre you will soon need to start using a razor. There are some moisturiser creams that can then be uses afterwards.

Mmhm, I often hear about razor burn, cuts, and other things that make the skin become discoloured and rough over time. How is that avoided? Maybe use the moisturiser cream by itself?


Whilst religeon seems to "teach" that this is right and that is wrong, I like tothink that there is tollerance there to accept people for who they are, and the feelings that they have. I hope that you can resolve those feelings and accept yourself for what you want to be.

Good luck.

Thanks, though I have to ask, where do we draw the line between accepting a person for who they are and making our own exceptions in what we believe? Because I could say I like to covet another man's wife and property (and act on it too) and say that's just who I am so accept me. However, I think most people would have a hard time simply accepting that as who I am. And if I call myself a Christian on top of that, I'd be a hypocrite right?



D what you r comfortable with if your Christian god will forgive you and I'm sure any other religion will forgive you too. I would do it

See that's just the problem, if I do that then I'm not really a Christian. It's one thing if it happens and I don't know its wrong, but its a very different decision to KNOW its wrong and do it anyways under the premises that I'll automatically be forgiven. It would make me a religious hypocrite who plays the role of a Christian just as long as I like it but only when its convenient. Which is basically the definition of me undermining my religion AND God.


I'm just playing devils advocate here, not discarding your arguments. :) This is why I'm so conflicted.... The world advocates the ideas of YOLO but many other things support the opposite.

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[lukene]

I'm sorry, I don't think anyone can or will find offense in my thread. They might disagree with it but there's nothing offensive in least bit. Your free to prove otherwise

You said "how can something feel so good but be so bad" implying that homosexual actions are wrong. Myself being gay/bi, I can't help but feel that it is perfectly normal and when people say it's bad or wrong it makes me feel like I am bad or wrong. So yes it is offensive.

[TurboDieselBandit]

You said "how can something feel so good but be so bad" implying that homosexual actions are wrong. Myself being gay/bi, I can't help but feel that it is perfectly normal and when people say it's bad or wrong it makes me feel like I am bad or wrong. So yes it is offensive.

Well I'm sorry, I wasn't trying to suggest that. Its a blunt conclusion based on Christian belief that homosexuality is wrong and unfortunately the bible is pretty clear on that. Remember, I'm in the same boat as you. I'm attracted to guys, I don't know exactly why, but I like em' and sadly thats in direct conflict with something else very important to me.

Do you see where I'm coming from?

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[Avacon]

Well I'm sorry, I wasn't trying to suggest that. Its a blunt conclusion based on Christian belief that homosexuality is wrong and unfortunately the bible is pretty clear on that. Remember, I'm in the same boat as you. I'm attracted to guys, I don't know exactly why, but I like em' and sadly thats in direct conflict with something else very important to me.

Do you see where I'm coming from?

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I'm also atheist, so I don't see anything wrong with it, but I know that in Christianity, "any man who does with a man what he does with a woman should be put to death" or something like that...

Honestly, I'd say it's a little different from stealing, or jealousy, or adultery, as those (to me) are "naturally" wrong, whereas homosexuality (in my opinion) is fine...

Besides, I'd say it's just experimentation. Not necessarily you being gay (or bi).

There are loads of arguments you could make, both for and against from a religious and/or non-religious standpoint... I'd say, overall, it's up to you. But, to be quite honest, I don't think God would smite you, or hate you, or suchlike if you experimented (though I don't know for sure - somehow I don't know him personally :P). :\

It's up to your interpretation of the Bible. To be quite honest, the Bible could've been written by someone who interpreted the word of God in their own way... So it might not be exactly what happened anyway, and might be biased to their view (that homosexuality is wrong)...

[dude17]

do what ur comfortable with and will be able to deal with after "it" happens

[Stig]

Well dude I'm a very strong Christian and I still do that stuff with one of my friends who is also a strong Christian. We just stop when we feel it is getting in the way of our faith. We all sin and God will forgive us no matter what we do and how many times we do it. God know that we will mess up and that is why God is so great. He will always love us no matter what we do an will ways forgive us. So if you want to continue with your friend go ahead. Have fun. It will become wrong if you guys start getting an emotional attraction towards each other and fall in love. That's when you have gone to far.
God Bless you dude! God will love an forgive you no matter what you and your friend decide to do!