Best friend

[virtualteen97]

Alright so I know theres hella posts about stuff like this but i wanted to post one specific to my situation to get a little bit more feedback that would help.

So I'm a freshman in high school and I met one of my now best friends at the beginning of the year. Lately we have been getting really close and now I consider him one of my best friends. He has always told me that he is a touchy-feely person which is true. He used to seem like one of the straightest-anti gay guys that i knew, but now he seems softer. Lately he doesn't seem to be like that. He's quite cute, and really muscular and stuff. Were always hugging now, and touching, and we were watching a movie in class and a romantic part came on between a guy and a girl and he wanted to hold my hand. He blamed it on both of us being single. He's always winking at me and always touching me, we always sack-tap each other in PE and he has a pretty big cock as i seem to be able to tell from bulge and "tapping it". We also talk about sex and j/o and stuff and our cock sizes.

So what I'm trying to get at is if you guys think that theres a little bit more of a connection there that you think i should explore or what. I don't really know what I'm asking here, merely just wanting your feedback on the situation! Thanks!

[sdude]

Yeah, I think maybe he has a boy-crush on you, it may pass if he finds a girl that he likes or you two may find it cool to play around or who knows....how do you feel about him? Do you want to take it further? Seems to me he is sending all the right signals..

[Catdogmouse1]

Sounds like he wants to experiment with u. Nothing wrong with that if u both want to do it. It's natural. And healthy. Have fun!

[sartbimpson55]

That's a little top touchy-feely. maybe he's trying to tell you something

[virtualteen97]

Yeah, I think maybe he has a boy-crush on you, it may pass if he finds a girl that he likes or you two may find it cool to play around or who knows....how do you feel about him? Do you want to take it further? Seems to me he is sending all the right signals..

I mean one time I said something about giving him a blowjob and he responded all defensive and kinda mean like "yeah, you would wanna give me one." so idk. he keeps on saying that we really need to hang out. i just have always seen his as super uber straight so its kinda hard for me to think that he may want to experiment. i mean does it really seem like he wants to from waht i said?

[virtualteen97]

That's a little top touchy-feely. maybe he's trying to tell you something

yeah idkk, i guess ill just see where it goes

[virtualteen97]

Sounds like he wants to experiment with u. Nothing wrong with that if u both want to do it. It's natural. And healthy. Have fun!

i just dont really know what to do. i dont wanna mess things up or be labeled gay

[Evancosta]

I think if you we're to "explore" with him, you should let him make the first move. Other people are unpredictable.

[SmartAleck]

Maybe two guy friends can love each other and be affectionate towards each other without it being sexual.

[LunarScorpio]

Curiousity is what I would put it down to.

Do it ONLY if you want to , and so does he, but it sounds like that is what he wants

Good luck

[The_Hunger_Games]

Yeah, I think maybe he has a boy-crush on you, it may pass if he finds a girl that he likes or you two may find it cool to play around or who knows....how do you feel about him? Do you want to take it further? Seems to me he is sending all the right signals..

I agree have fun with him he seems like he wants to experiment with you lol

[Ballboy]

You're in an even worse position than me. My best friend and I sometimes like to be close together, like side by side watching TV, and we've occasionally hugged -- but nothing sexual. I feel kinda excited round him lately and would like to touch him sometimes but he's done nothing to encourage experiments. I've kinda decided to hold back: I'm really afraid of spoiling our friendship.

[SmartAleck]

You're in an even worse position than me. My best friend and I sometimes like to be close together, like side by side watching TV, and we've occasionally hugged -- but nothing sexual. I feel kinda excited round him lately and would like to touch him sometimes but he's done nothing to encourage experiments. I've kinda decided to hold back: I'm really afraid of spoiling our friendship.

I know exactly what you mean. Me and Ian had taken baths and showers together and slept next to each other ten thousand times. And then, all of a sudden I started noticing him. The only times I ever noticed him before was when he had a new scrape or bruise from one of his Jackass stunts. But then I started thinking that he had a nice looking body and when I brushed up against him in the shower or in bed it was, boing! And I was really sacred because we've been so close for so long without me having any feelings like that. And he's kind of a tough hombre. Fortunately just as I stared felling like I was coming unglued, Ian came to the rescue, as always, and instated the infamous boner sword fight in the shower.

[London-17]

Alright so I know theres hella posts about stuff like this but i wanted to post one specific to my situation to get a little bit more feedback that would help.

So I'm a freshman in high school and I met one of my now best friends at the beginning of the year. Lately we have been getting really close and now I consider him one of my best friends. He has always told me that he is a touchy-feely person which is true. He used to seem like one of the straightest-anti gay guys that i knew, but now he seems softer. Lately he doesn't seem to be like that. He's quite cute, and really muscular and stuff. Were always hugging now, and touching, and we were watching a movie in class and a romantic part came on between a guy and a girl and he wanted to hold my hand. He blamed it on both of us being single. He's always winking at me and always touching me, we always sack-tap each other in PE and he has a pretty big cock as i seem to be able to tell from bulge and "tapping it". We also talk about sex and j/o and stuff and our cock sizes.

So what I'm trying to get at is if you guys think that theres a little bit more of a connection there that you think i should explore or what. I don't really know what I'm asking here, merely just wanting your feedback on the situation! Thanks!

if ya just talk to him about it and become close then youre gonna be gr8

[JonasBe]

Seems to me he does want to do some things. So just keep on suggesting stuff and see how he responds to that.

The reason why he may seem so über straight is reflecting. Maybe he does feel some things but doesn't want to accept it yet. That often happens.

[MarkoSt]

Curious he is! There is prolly something happen! i would let it build and then decide

[radioactive]

Theres something more going on there

[ULeon]

Maybe two guy friends can love each other and be affectionate towards each other without it being sexual.

i was thinking the same thing, becuase that is how me and my best friend are he hugg and all that but its just as fireds nothing more.

[pyropilot1668]

Just be careful

[Catholic Guy]

If he's 'sack-tapping' you (which sounds awesome by the way) maybe he really isn't as straight as you thought but it sounds like he just wants to experiment with you, maybe you should hang out with him

[chezhans]

This sounds like a strange story...but to be honest with you, I think he might (again, might not does) have a boy-crush on you. Talk to him and see how it all goes. Experimentation possibly?

[johnsmith1]

Just have a little private talk with him. take it slow at first and then see ho it goes.

[virtualteen97]

If he's 'sack-tapping' you (which sounds awesome by the way) maybe he really isn't as straight as you thought but it sounds like he just wants to experiment with you, maybe you should hang out with him

Were hanging out on friday!

[Catholic Guy]

Cool are you going to try anything, like hanging out as in naked?