Getting to grips with it.

[Hunter_Steel]

Well, since I figured out that I am adding guys to the list after 17 years of just liking girls. I also thought long and hard on it, figuring out my hormones are not playing a part in this.

How I found out?

I started being attracted to guys, and noticing them the same way I did notice girls. Although I think it will be a while before I am at piece with probably having a sexual attraction, I know I have a romantic attraction. Remember, I had an entire life of being disgusted at the thought of being attracted to a guy, and only looking towards spending a future with a girl.

But through the past couple of months I started to notice guys. And it was a little worrying, but I am at peace now with it. But yeah, I feel a little better knowing who I really am. I just need to watch who I tell coz I won't hear the end of it if I tell some people. (jokes, insults, praying, and Oh god, lots)

~Hunter

[Jabbawocke]

Well good for you. I've started ... "appreciating" guys too.

[jayyy-lmao]

Good job getting to terms with it so far, Hunter. You do get used to it. :)

[RCT109]

hey if you are worried about jokes
here is what i would sugest
make some of the jokes your self

its like an african american person making a racist joke about them self

[Magnus Bane]

don't worry about it if people make fun of you then so be it they're not your real friends.

[Hunter_Steel]

Thanks guys, this means alot to me.

~Hunter

[Lovelife090994]

As long as you're happy, fine, and sure is all that matters, bravo de moi! I pray and hope that you do well and for your future to be not only bright but brighter! Good news, a bientot! Have a blessed day!

[Faolan]

The important thing is that you respect and appreciate yourself. It won't matter what others think; in the end, the only person's opinion that should truly matter is your own.

[likemike]

hey if you are worried about jokes
here is what i would sugest
make some of the jokes your self

its like an african american person making a racist joke about them self

Your example is stupid. Putting yourself down to amuse others isn't a solution. For instance if I were to joke about eating fried chicken for example, the people already making jokes won't stop. They would think it's ok to make more jokes

[RCT109]

Your example is stupid. Putting yourself down to amuse others isn't a solution. For instance if I were to joke about eating fried chicken for example, the people already making jokes won't stop. They would think it's ok to make more jokes

most people see that you are making jokes so they stop because it doesn't offend you