Kissing another guy

[jamesh]

So I've messed around with a few guys before and really enjoyed it, but while we tried a bunch of different things, we never kissed. I've only ever kissed girls before, which is great, and I guess in the back of my mind I never really wanted to kiss a guy.

But then that changed a few days ago, and I was amazed at how much I enjoyed it. I'm interested in getting other guys thoughts on this - have you kissed another guy, or would you?

Plus, I'm also wondering - I've always thought I was straight but curious, but is this a significant step in determining that I'm bi/gay?

[Avacon]

I have no idea, myself. Never done it before (though would like to)... I think it's possible that you're bi, but as far as I know there's no true science or standard as to orientation... It's mainly just what the person themself does, I think. o:

[Ballboy]

Never did. Not sure if I'd like to or not. Sometimes I think so and then change my mind lol!

[johnsmith1]

There are times when I read threads, I start to get more and more curious too! I am now thinking about trying....

[SmartAleck]

The way so many guys on VT talk, I seems like most of them MUST bi/straight at least for now. This thread is encouraging me to try kissing with my best bud and it will be my first kiss :D

[ULeon]

its really no difference, i did it because of a dare. 5 people including me where to be blind folded and two would get paired up and would have to make out...turns the "lucky ones" (not really) where me and my best friend..well we both unknowingly kissed for a while and i was starting to enjoy it when i felt a tongue piercing i knew that it was him... he said he also realized it was me because of mine but since we were already there he was just going to keep going till they said stop..anyway my point is a kiss feels no different from a guy or a girl ( in physical feeling) but in emotional (a girls is always the way to go for me...I would not mind having to kiss my bestfriend again, i mean like ive been there done that what ever, but it is not something that i look for at any time.

[Abyssal Echo]

my first kiss was from a boy. it was awesome.

[darkdude41]

that's the thing that people don't really understand about sexuality. For people who aren't narrow-minded and are willing to let themselves explore, sexuality is a very flexible thing. Its like a soundwave, which just continually fluctuates up and down, sometimes more than others. For the curious sort, sexuality is just what you're currently into at that moment. For myself, I find that there are times where I am more into girls and times where i'm more into guys, and even times when it levels out to an equal attraction to both.

I guess what I'm trying to say is your sexuality is SUPPOSED to fluctuate and change, if you're WILLING to let it do so :)
Oh and to answer your question, your kiss with another guy could very well be an indication that you might be bi or gay. If nothing else, it could be an indication that you're bi-curious. But, you have your whole life to figure that out. Maybe you'll never even settle for something in particular.

The important thing is to realize that that is okay :)

Anyway, I've only kissed a guy once and we were both really drunk, so it wasn't fun at all.
I'd definitely kiss a guy if given the opportunity, but I'd want it to be someone I know well and have good connection with. A kiss can be simple, but it my mind its a pretty sentimental thing and I wouldn't wanna share it with just anybody. Though I'm sure there will be time when I'm more adventurous and just say, screw it lets do this lol.

[ULeon]

The way so many guys on VT talk, I seems like most of them MUST bi/straight at least for now. This thread is encouraging me to try kissing with my best bud and it will be my first kiss :D

good luck be sure and let us know how your experience was and what your new opinions are..

[SmartAleck]

good luck be sure and let us know how your experience was and what your new opinions are..

We decided that I'll keep posting updates of our explorations (since so many are asking us to.

[spoke]

We decided that I'll keep posting updates of our explorations (since so many are asking us to.

have fun and be safe!!

I have kissed both boys and girls, the best kisser is my best (male) friend.

[The_Hunger_Games]

Yeah I made out with one and it was great

[thatblondeboy69]

Yeah :)

[YOUR BROTHER]

same but never kissed a guy either

[Harley Quinn]

Don't bump old threads. :locked: