View Full Version : Hey guys, need to know if this is normal and if you could help.
Rolling Thunder99
April 30th, 2013, 09:12 PM
I really like this girl. We talk in school,but I am really shy, I mean REALLY shy. We talk alot on Facebook and some in school but not to the same extent as online. I think she likes me but I don't know how to go about figuring it out. I don't want to look stupid by asking and she isn't interested.
If you had some back round on me here: I am Athletic ( DE/ Left tackle on Football team, and a wrestler) , shy, I am nice and polite unless you make me angry, I am a very loving guy if you get into my comfort zone.
LouBerry
April 30th, 2013, 09:24 PM
Ask the girl.
Jabbawocke
April 30th, 2013, 10:05 PM
Ask the girl.
Take it from a girl, and ask your girl.
No harm can come from it. Though I suggest you start talking to her more in real life, than online. No relationship can benefit from more online talk. Get to know her more, and poke around for subtle hints if ever she likes you.
No pain no gain my friend. If she doesn't like you, it's not the end of the world. Their are other girls in the world.
dusman77
April 30th, 2013, 10:08 PM
You're gonna have to try and overcome your shyness. You could get closer to her to find out OR man up and ask her. Good luck.
Cygnus
April 30th, 2013, 10:41 PM
Are you close with a friend of hers? Tell a friend of hers to ask her and then to tell you what she responded, it works for me.
likemike
April 30th, 2013, 11:51 PM
Take it from me dont wait, rejection only lasts a minute
Danny Phantom
May 1st, 2013, 02:20 AM
Ask her, yes it may hurt if she says no, but it is better to have that off your chest. And you never know, she may say yes. And if you don't ask, you'll never find that out.
I'm exactly like you, I'll talk to someone I like online, but I'm actually REALLY shy in person.
Ballboy
May 1st, 2013, 02:28 AM
Ask her, yes it may hurt if she says no, but it is better to have that off your chest. And you never know, she may say yes. And if you don't ask, you'll never find that out.
I'm exactly like you, I'll talk to someone I like online, but I'm actually REALLY shy in person.
Maybe it's easier online. I wish I had a cute friend who's also a FB friend. But I think I might still be afraid.
chezhans
May 4th, 2013, 11:37 PM
Ask her out. You dont know until you try do you. Having said that...
darkdude41
May 4th, 2013, 11:51 PM
you kinda HAVE to ask dude. The girl will respect your straight-forward approach to it, if nothing else.
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