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sambeans
April 30th, 2013, 07:53 AM
I cant seem to have strong Orgasms with my BF.
Rina
April 30th, 2013, 08:42 AM
Not that I'm any expert, but I would expect he's just not hitting the right spot. In a lot of shows and reading, girls can do it better by themselves than their partners ever can. You can always just teach him, lol.
sambeans
April 30th, 2013, 09:15 AM
Yeah, I have tried to tell him to slow down and not be so quick about things. He doesnt seem to get it.
Deleted 12
April 30th, 2013, 02:48 PM
Than don't have sex with him until he is willing to do it in a way that makes you feel good
tundravortex
April 30th, 2013, 03:38 PM
I cant seem to have strong Orgasms with my BF.

some people have strong orgasms,some have soft orgasms,some dont have any,every ones different
RAGE DJ
April 30th, 2013, 03:44 PM
I agree with Maka teach him how to hit a certain spot. If he isn't listening he may think he's already good but he not. "Sex is like driving a car...All men think they're good at it"
sambeans
April 30th, 2013, 04:19 PM
ive tried to show him. guess i need to do that again..
drew6
April 30th, 2013, 04:54 PM
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Wanderer_
April 30th, 2013, 05:17 PM
Probably his failing not yours
sambeans
May 1st, 2013, 07:22 AM
Yeah, I cant withhold sex that may make the problem worse. So I may need to sit him down again and explain that he needs to focus on my pleasure more than just his. Sometimes he finishes way too soon.
GigglyAbby
June 19th, 2013, 01:15 AM
Sex is a 2 way street and both should work with one another so they both are satisfied. Communication is important in every relationship and especially during and involving intimacy. I wouldn't withhold sex from him but if he's coming across as it's his needs only and he acts that way in other aspects of the relationship -- you may need to re-evaluate if he's the right guy for you.

some people have strong orgasms,some have soft orgasms,some dont have any,every ones different

Agreed!
caliguy
June 19th, 2013, 02:17 PM
Every girl is different. and has different intensities of orgasms even with the same guy. There are many factors that come into play with how your orgasm will be in that moment. However i did see you say that if you with hold sex it could make the problem worse. If that is going to possibly happen you should not be with that particular guy. If he can't handle you with holding it until he tries (in an honest effort) to do what you want then he is not worth it. It is a 2 way street and both parties need to enjoy it. Not every time though. Sometimes he will blow a load really fast and you don't have time to enjoy and sometimes he can hold out and you could have multiple orgasms. The key is that you both need to be conscious of each other.