Someguy42
April 29th, 2013, 06:49 PM
Had a crush on this girl for a bit now. Decided to go after her, never done this before.
Good signs:
1. She waited 30 minutes for me. No joke, after our midterm.
2. She asked me to go swing dancing with her ( I couldn't make it unfortunatly. I meant to ask her out but she beat me to it)
3. She seems comfortable around me.
4. I said I didn't have her on facebook and said I'd find her. Next day comes along and SHE texts me saying she can't find me on Facebook.
She asked me to swing dance but I couldn't make it. We rescheduled and then SHE couldn't make it. She told me this beforehand that she wasn't sure if she could come and apologized profusely when she said she couldn't.
She hasn't been in a relationship before and neither have I. So today, I decided to go for it and asked her to go bowling with me. This is pretty close to what was said:
Me: So...<Her name>. I haven't been bowling in a long time and maybe next weekend, maybe this weekend, I'm not sure, I'm thinking of going and I was wondering...would you like to come? I dunno, don't really want to go alone.
Her: I'd like to but.....I'm flat broke.
Me: I'll pay for you if you want.
Her: No its ok. I'd feel bad if you did.
Thankfully, I timed the conversation JUST RIGHT so we had to part ways right afterwards. I don't know if she rejected me or not. I HAVE overreacted to a sign or two that turned out to be something harmless. Part of me says that she might REALLY be flat broke. The other part of me says "You just got rejected"
Did I get rejected or not? Is there anything I can do? Girls I like are far and few so I probably won't get another one for a while to come. If she's a lost cause, please tell me. I'm not the most amazing looking guy so I won't be super surprised if she rejects me (I'm Indian, no accent but what do you expect? XD)
Regardless if I got rejected or not, I'm going to ask her out one more time (Probably to swing dance) and see where it goes.
Sorry its so long XD
Good signs:
1. She waited 30 minutes for me. No joke, after our midterm.
2. She asked me to go swing dancing with her ( I couldn't make it unfortunatly. I meant to ask her out but she beat me to it)
3. She seems comfortable around me.
4. I said I didn't have her on facebook and said I'd find her. Next day comes along and SHE texts me saying she can't find me on Facebook.
She asked me to swing dance but I couldn't make it. We rescheduled and then SHE couldn't make it. She told me this beforehand that she wasn't sure if she could come and apologized profusely when she said she couldn't.
She hasn't been in a relationship before and neither have I. So today, I decided to go for it and asked her to go bowling with me. This is pretty close to what was said:
Me: So...<Her name>. I haven't been bowling in a long time and maybe next weekend, maybe this weekend, I'm not sure, I'm thinking of going and I was wondering...would you like to come? I dunno, don't really want to go alone.
Her: I'd like to but.....I'm flat broke.
Me: I'll pay for you if you want.
Her: No its ok. I'd feel bad if you did.
Thankfully, I timed the conversation JUST RIGHT so we had to part ways right afterwards. I don't know if she rejected me or not. I HAVE overreacted to a sign or two that turned out to be something harmless. Part of me says that she might REALLY be flat broke. The other part of me says "You just got rejected"
Did I get rejected or not? Is there anything I can do? Girls I like are far and few so I probably won't get another one for a while to come. If she's a lost cause, please tell me. I'm not the most amazing looking guy so I won't be super surprised if she rejects me (I'm Indian, no accent but what do you expect? XD)
Regardless if I got rejected or not, I'm going to ask her out one more time (Probably to swing dance) and see where it goes.
Sorry its so long XD