Am I Bi?

[Hunter_Steel]

Okay, I know this is strange, but over the past few months I have started to notice how good looking some guys are. And once or twice I've had a dream where I was in bed with another man.

The issue is, I have a girlfriend, and I don't want to start noticing guys as I do girls. Is this normal or am I turning bisexual because I am still attracted to girls, but now it looks like Guys are coming onto the list aswell.

Please help!

~Hunter

[jayyy-lmao]

It's been said here before a million times, it doesn't matter what you are. But if it's a big deal, you're probably better off without our help. You'll find whatever answers that are in you, not in us.

[TheDeepestDepths]

Personally I believe that everyone is bi, but the majority of people have a heavy preference for people of the opposite sex and they identify as straight.

Even if you have a girlfriend, it shouldn't really matter if you are noticing people of the same gender as you, it's just the same as noticing girls. You're not dead, you don't simply stop noticing attractive people because you get a boyfriend/girlfriend.

If your girlfriend is open minded and accepting, chances are she's not going to mind, you're still with her after all. I know a guy who was really flattered when he found out his girlfriend was bi because it meant that out of everyone she knew, not just one gender, but both, she still chose to be with him.

Just something to think about! xP

[Hunter_Steel]

I already told her. But the fact is I don't know if I am straight or bi. Thats the issue.

She's accepting and doesn't mind. I think she's even happy to hear it, because she is pro-LGBT and I used to be mostly against it, but now I've become pro-LGBT and I have noticed I might be bi. So I dunno if I am bi or not.

~Hunter

[Jack230]

That's puberty mate. When you come over it, everything will be normal so don't worry.

[AbernathyElkwood]

It's hard to guess if it's just hormones or not. I think it's best to wait a bit and see how you feel then.<33

[Hermes96]

It's been said here before a million times, it doesn't matter what you are. But if it's a big deal, you're probably better off without our help. You'll find whatever answers that are in you, not in us.


i agree with jojo

[Hermes96]

its nt strange its natural