I don't even know anymore...

[SecretSuperHero]

I am a 15 year old guy. I have had this friend since we were kids lets call him Craig. Craig and I have known each other forever and we are on great terms as it comes to a friendship. But whenever i am around or near him i have a feeling that i want to be with him. I am physically and sexually attracted to women but its just weird when it comes to Craig. Is this because of all of the hormones or does it have an underlining reason. Any help would be appreciated. thanks to all those who help.

[boringkid]

Same problem here, an answer would Be help full for me too

[harley95]

It could just means that you guys are great friends and you feel like you are the best friends that's how my dad and my "uncle" (my dads best friend) are they are so close that they are part of your family

[Ballboy]

You mean like you too?!! I thought this was just me. Does it mean I'm gay or what?

[pjones]

I love my best friend as much as my brother, but I get aroused sexually by my friend. I think it's because of puberty

[countryboi9]

i get the same way around one of my friends, think its hormones and more, its hard to figure out some times

[itsthat0n3kid]

its just one of those things you go through during puberty. nothing out of the ordinary. dont worry.

[The_Hunger_Games]

nope its just the joys of puberty (hormones)

[drew6]

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[boringkid]

Of course you want to be around your friends. Why wouldn't you, they're you're buddies. I think it would be weird if you didn't wanna be with them tbh.

That's not what we meant

[drew6]

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[SecretSuperHero]

Of course you want to be around your friends. Why wouldn't you, they're you're buddies. I think it would be weird if you didn't wanna be with them tbh.
it's not like a friendship attraction, it's weird I'm not sure. like I want it to be something more but I don't find my self attracted to guys

[Ballboy]

it's not like a friendship attraction, it's weird I'm not sure. like I want it to be something more but I don't find my self attracted to guys
Yeah weird. I'm not even sure what I think I'd like. I don't wanna feel him up or grope his dick. And the thought of doin sex stuff with him feels all wrong. But i get excited when he's near me or if our arms touch like, and sometimes I'd like to feel his arm or leg muscles just cos he's stronger than me.

[Matt_2012]

I reckon its hormones and maybe the closeness you guys have or could have that you like.. If that makes sense.

[dan8854]

hormones man. don't over think it!

[xmojox]

It's a best-friends thing. As close as a brother and maybe even closer. It's nothing to feel bad or worried about. It's natural guys. You're probably closer to your best-friend than you are to anyone else in the world, and, yeah, thinkin about being even closer is just sorta natural. If anything happens from it or not is up to the two of you, and it's ok if it does and it's ok if it doesn't. Hope this maybe helped a little....

[drew6]

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[chezhans]

You mean like you too?!! I thought this was just me. Does it mean I'm gay or what?

You aren't Pat...you're just curious that's all...and even though I am straight (being devout Catholic), I do hint that somewhere every now and again trust me ;)

[jacksonthelan]

your not gay, the feeling you guys are having, ive had and been through this, you get jelly and stuff when they with other people, they are like family but more, but they arent like boyfriend, girlfriend, it's normal, the guy i was feeling like this too got in trouble with the police with drugs and other stuff and i've never seen him again

[Ballboy]

Drew, I think you nailed it like totally. That's how I feel -- I'd like to "be" him ...why? because I admire him so much & think he's great? Maybe that's it.
You sound like a good friend, Drew.

This is my 99th post :-)

[Ballboy]

You aren't Pat...you're just curious that's all...and even though I am straight (being devout Catholic), I do hint that somewhere every now and again trust me ;)

Thanks Hans.

[swimBoy]

I'm like that to with my best friend, and he is with me. I guess it's sorta universal.

[LunarScorpio]

It is not gay, if you have known someone for ever, then i feel it is perfectly normal.

That exactly is what started our dorm relations, and all he showing adn jacking each other that we do.

You never know, he may be interested in you too, but be cautious when asking, sound jokey for an easy get out.

[Celtic.]

this happens to me with two of my closest friends......but then again they both are girls and most of my friends are girls.....hmmmmm I think it is just hormones

[ChanChan976]

Hormones take over. Its happened to me too.

[sixguy6]

maybe your just gay

[UTurn]

I have two best friends. One of them I'm just really good friends with. But the other I love like a brother. Like I would tell him anything and I just love being around him. I wouldn't ever wanna do ANYTHING sexual with either but I love them both in a brotherly way. Not gay, not wanting to be in a relationship with them, I just love them.