I cant find someone to love :(

[Magnus Bane]

I can't find anyone in my community to love me or even talk to me.(Boyfriend wise). I feel alone and sometimes think of suicide. The only thing stopping me is the people on here and my friends. I'm always depressed and I am in the school bathroom like 8 times a day crying and thinking of how I'm going to kill myself. I need serious help and my mom won't help me. My school councilor is trying everything she can but she can't get me into therapy without my mom permission and she said I didn't need it. Can anyone here help me I have tried everything I could to get help I think this may be my last chance. :(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(

[Reanne]

Stop trying to find love. Love will come when you least expect it. Just try and be the best person you can be. Be thoughtful and considerate to others and people will see this quality in you. Smile and be happy and grateful for the wonderful life we have. Put a smile on someone else's face and you will see it on yours.

Think outside the square and think and do different things. Be daring and try something new which can open a door to new people and new relationships. You can do it because your special, just remember that.

[Thanatos]

Reanne hit the nail on the head. You can't force love or a relationship of that sort. You're in High School, most likely one with the same people who you have grown up with. Even if you go to a large public high school, it is still a small sample size. For now, enjoy your friends and family, and don't worry about romance. If it happens, that's great. If it doesn't, it's not the end of the world. I'm 18 and in college, and have yet to meet a person that I've sat down and said "Man I love them and think I could see myself staying with them". Don't let these kinds of worries run your life.

Also: I love your name and can't wait for the movie, Godfrey Gao is perfect.

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I totally agree with Thanatos and Reanne. You can't FIND love, love finds you.

[Carlyle]

I can't find anyone in my community to love me or even talk to me.(Boyfriend wise). I feel alone and sometimes think of suicide. The only thing stopping me is the people on here and my friends. I'm always depressed and I am in the school bathroom like 8 times a day crying and thinking of how I'm going to kill myself. I need serious help and my mom won't help me. My school councilor is trying everything she can but she can't get me into therapy without my mom permission and she said I didn't need it. Can anyone here help me I have tried everything I could to get help I think this may be my last chance. :(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(

Jesus fuck, your location made my eyes pop. You're like an hour from where I live, small world isn't it?

OT: You shouldn't force yourself to be with someone just because you're afraid they'll be the only one to love you. What that means for you, though, is don't jump at the first guy to show interest. You shouldn't be looking for someone to love you, you just want/need to be open to the thought of it happening.

If you have an attraction to someone, why not give it a shot? It may or may not work, but there's no point in second guessing. The only way to know is to put yourself out there.

Point blank, I'm just telling you what other have already said.

[Jamesison]

Love will come to you at the right time. If you keep trying to look for it you will go crazy. Just wait and make sure when you do its real love nothing fake. Any one can say Oh I love you. But is it real love and do they mean it. I belive you cant love a person over night you have to no them and get to love them over time.