View Full Version : How long have you known?
RyanJF1
April 26th, 2013, 09:35 PM
I always wonder when people "realize" that they are gay/bi. Personally, I believe you are born as being gay/bi, and that nothing can change that. Though, you tend to notice it at different times.
I noticed that I was attracted to guys around the same time guys started getting into girls, but I wasn't into girls as much as everyone else. At 11, I kind of knew I liked guys, and 4 years later I can admit that. :) I didn't have a problem with liking guys; I was just being me.
So my question to you is: How long have you known you were gay/bi?
Faolan
April 26th, 2013, 09:42 PM
I decided to make it easier for myself when coming out, and I labeled myself gay/bi. It's true, but I still like girls. I really didn't realize that i might be until this fall when my guy friend asked me which girl I had a crush on, and the only face in my head was a guy's.
teen.jpg
April 26th, 2013, 10:17 PM
Since I was 11. I though I was just "admiring" other guys, but it was a lot more then that lol. And here I am today 3 years later!
Abyssal Echo
April 26th, 2013, 10:43 PM
I guess around 9 or 10 my friends were getting interested in girls. I wasn't interested.
I liked guys. I came out as Gay at 13
Zach_014
April 27th, 2013, 09:13 PM
I realized in very early 13 and it SUCKED SO MUCH!!! but now I'm over that crap and am happy with who I am :D
acan1997
May 4th, 2013, 08:56 PM
I didnt have a thought about guys in my head until I met one boy when I was 14. I fell hard for him and now I am more attracted to guys than girls
LiamC
May 5th, 2013, 02:27 PM
I was about 10/11, so around about the same time that most people start to notice girls. Except I was noticing boys, although I didn't even admit to myself I was gay until I was about 14! I always was though, looking back.
Convoluted one
May 5th, 2013, 04:14 PM
its kind of weid. i guess i have always know since i was like 9, but i am not sure about this whole coming out. im not looking for a boy friend so why should i?
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