Oh Boys.

[woahman]

I'm 14 year old.

Ever since 6th grade I've had a crush on the same boy. He goes to my school and he's in a few of my classes. We're really good friends and we talk to each other all the time. Most of our conversations are completely flirting. Not just from me, he usually starts it! And I know for a fact that he knows that I have a huge crush on him. :wub:

But there are a couple problems:

1. He has a girlfriend. Since summer, but they're not like in love or anything. He's just dating her to have a girlfriend (that's what everyone says.)

2. All of my friends think he's a total asshole. But he's extremely nice to me!

3. I can't help but to think it's pointless and that I should just give up. He makes me feel so crappy but at the same time, amazing.


What should I do?

[crash007]

Well if he is just dating her to have a girlfriend and he talks to you a lot maybe you should talk to him deeper. If you already flirt then maybe you could ask him out. As just friends and if he says yes then take advantage of that time and bring his girlfriend up or something. You might find out that he likes you too and he doesnt want to tell you. Because he may be afraid that if he asks you out that you will say no and his gf will find out and he will be without a gf. Thats kind of over predicting but you never know. Hope this helped.

[0=]

If he makes you feel bad maybe you should reconsider. I know your hormones are going nuts, but you should really only date people whose company you truly enjoy. If you must, go for it, but it's possible that you will find out the hard way that your friends' judgment is correct. I say this because you already have doubts about this person and true friends are there to look out for you.

[crash007]

If he makes you feel bad maybe you should reconsider. I know your hormones are going nuts, but you should really only date people whose company you truly enjoy. If you must, go for it, but it's possible that you will find out the hard way that your friends' judgment is correct. I say this because you already have doubts about this person and true friends are there to look out for you.

OOO! I didn't realize the part about how he makes you feel bad! I agree with =0=. There are many guys out there that wont make you feel like shit and will make you feel great so keep looking. He's probably not the right person for you if he makes you feel that way.

[woahman]

Well, it's not that he makes me feel bad. It's just that we always flirt and talk and everything. But he has a girlfriend, so it's kind of..not a good thing.

does that make sense?

Other then that, he can always cheer me up and make me feel great.

[0=]

Just follow your instincts.

[wolfram_07]

I'm 14 year old.

Ever since 6th grade I've had a crush on the same boy. He goes to my school and he's in a few of my classes. We're really good friends and we talk to each other all the time. Most of our conversations are completely flirting. Not just from me, he usually starts it! And I know for a fact that he knows that I have a huge crush on him. :wub:

But there are a couple problems:

1. He has a girlfriend. Since summer, but they're not like in love or anything. He's just dating her to have a girlfriend (that's what everyone says.)

2. All of my friends think he's a total asshole. But he's extremely nice to me!

3. I can't help but to think it's pointless and that I should just give up. He makes me feel so crappy but at the same time, amazing.


What should I do?

1.. since it seems that this guy's an asshole, and a flirt, then it may be inferred that he's only flirting with the girl. as in no girlfriend-boyfriend thing or what.

2.. of course he would be nice to you! not to your friends.. he wasn't flirting with them, right?.. besides, he knows that they do not have a crush on him. why spend time being goody-goody?

3.. no comment. you're simply confused with his signals.


what should you do?.. lemme see..

follow what you think would be the best..

though personally, i think he's not worth a shot.

[Ambrosia]

Please don't bump old threads! :locked: