I Feel EXTREMELY Stupid Saying This!

[PinkFloyd]

Lately my girlfriend ha been extra-- How do I put this? Playful... Like REALLY playful. Don't get me wrong, it is an awesome thing to have, but man, I've really been breaking my bank buying condoms and whatnot. Plus, our relationship is based on sex. Like we do other stuff, but ex is over 50 percent of what we like to do all the fricken time. I am not saying I want to be abstinint or anything, I just want less because sooner or later I will grow bored of sex.. I DON"T WANT THAT! :eek: I don't know how to ask her though. I mean I'm a guy that pretty much craves this stuff and she knows it too. Help?

[Wanderer_]

You don't ever get bored of sex

[PinkFloyd]

You don't ever get bored of sex

I sure hope not.

[Leftyxx69xx]

Lately my girlfriend ha been extra-- How do I put this? Playful... Like REALLY playful. Don't get me wrong, it is an awesome thing to have, but man, I've really been breaking my bank buying condoms and whatnot. Plus, our relationship is based on sex. Like we do other stuff, but ex is over 50 percent of what we like to do all the fricken time. I am not saying I want to be abstinint or anything, I just want less because sooner or later I will grow bored of sex.. I DON"T WANT THAT! :eek: I don't know how to ask her though. I mean I'm a guy that pretty much craves this stuff and she knows it too. Help?

sooooo jealous of u

[Lil Red]

Try other forms of satisfying her suh as fingering her, eating her out or get her a vibrator, dildo or even an electric toothbrush

[sparkles]

I think part of being in a relationship is balancing the desires and wants of both parties. I don't think you ever not like sex, but I know that there are ways to keep it fun: roleplaying, toys, etc. Have you talked to her about maybe slowing down a little?

[xmojox]

I don't see how it could be possible to ever get bored of sex, but I do know from experience that sex isn't a good basis for a relationship. There's more to life and a relationship should probably reflect that. Try goin out and doing other stuff together so its not about sex so often. Summer's coming so that should make it easier, especially up there in the tropics. Oh, and don't feel stupid for writing about it! Good luck, man.

[PinkFloyd]

I don't see how it could be possible to ever get bored of sex, but I do know from experience that sex isn't a good basis for a relationship. There's more to life and a relationship should probably reflect that. Try goin out and doing other stuff together so its not about sex so often. Summer's coming so that should make it easier, especially up there in the tropics. Oh, and don't feel stupid for writing about it! Good luck, man.

Yeah, thanks, man. We will probably go to amusement parks and what not.

[xmojox]

Yeah, thanks, man. We will probably go to amusement parks and what not.

Amusement parks rock :D

[PinkFloyd]

Amusement parks rock :D

Yep. This is our local one:
http://pool.twincitiesdailyphoto.com/2007/valley_fair.jpg
What you see is a tiny portion of it. ;)

[xmojox]

Yep. This is our local one:
image (http://pool.twincitiesdailyphoto.com/2007/valley_fair.jpg)
What you see is a tiny portion of it. ;)
Looks like a fun one! We have a Six Flags but it costs a fortune!

[PinkFloyd]

Looks like a fun one! We have a Six Flags but it costs a fortune!

It's about 30 bucks for a day ticket to this one. around 90 bucks for a season pass to the park and its built in water park. Yes, you heard right a WATER PARK. ;)

[xmojox]

It's about 30 bucks for a day ticket to this one. around 90 bucks for a season pass to the park and its built in water park. Yes, you heard right a WATER PARK. ;)

Sweet!! That'd def be worth 90 bucks!! Ours is about the same price but its too far out for a season pass to be worth it for me :( the only bus service out there is an express and it goes the wrong way at the wrong times lol

[Synyster Shadows]

I don't imagine you'll grow bored of it unless you don't experiment and try new things when you do it. But yeah, get out and about with her and do other fun stuff. a relationship purely based on sex will be over soon.

[PinkFloyd]

Sweet!! That'd def be worth 90 bucks!! Ours is about the same price but its too far out for a season pass to be worth it for me :( the only bus service out there is an express and it goes the wrong way at the wrong times lol

Aww that's too bad. The only problem I have w/ this park is the damn security! :mad:
Last summer when we were both there, things got sort of -- is intimint the right word? Yeah, intimint. ANYWAYS, this guy pulls out his wallet and says IN QUOTE: "Valleyfair Security, hands off of each other!. Little kids are around!" I mean it's not like I was getting head or anything... Plus the fact that I saw one little kid that must have been 8. That's not little! Oh, and the odds of me getting head in an hour wait line for a roller coaster is zero even though we were bored as hell. :lol3:

[xXl0sth0peXx]

I think this fits better in relationships.

Questions for Both Boys and Girls :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[airjordan97]

Yep. This is our local one:
image (http://pool.twincitiesdailyphoto.com/2007/valley_fair.jpg)
What you see is a tiny portion of it. ;)

I've been to that one in Minneapolis!

[PinkFloyd]

I've been to that one in Minneapolis!

haha awesome! I live about 15 miles from there!

[dontfiguremeout]

Well get to really know her! You can have a very romantic relationship without having sex at all! You just really have to create deep emotions for her and show it! You guys can have a lot of fun and become deeper if just by talking too and going through challenges together.

[Horatio Nelson]

I don't resent it myself. But I can understand if it's happening ALL THE TIME it could get a bit repetitive. Just try and tell her how you feel about it. I'm sure she'll understand.

[Altiier]

You don't ever get bored of sex

Agreed

[jaxian rhyder]

sooooo jealous of u

Same here
but to be more serious just do 1 of 2 things
float around the subject of unprotected sex
or tell her to have sex a little less often

[ashdyn]

"accidentally" put it in the wrong hole ;) LMAO

[lipstick_kisses23]

You're such a good guy =]