My grandma

[Drew dReaMS]

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[BebeFleur.]

Hmm, partly seems like molestation. Did she make you sleep naked and take a bath? This sounds eerie, but it could be perfectly innocent. Have you talked to her about it?

Also, is this still going on, or has it stopped?

[Drew dReaMS]

Hmm, partly seems like molestation. Did she make you sleep naked and take a bath? This sounds eerie, but it could be perfectly innocent. Have you talked to her about it?

Also, is this still going on, or has it stopped?

Yes I would tell her I didn't want to, but she would make me. My girlfriend is the only one that knows and that I've talked about it with

Also yes it has stopped

[BebeFleur.]

Okay, then that is probably molestation if she forced you. You need to talk to someone. Is this affecting you mentally (PTSD)?

[Drew dReaMS]

I try to block it out.

[RiverM]

I try to block it out.

If you cannot block it out, or if You are having issues with this, it is a good idea to possibly see some sort of professional, or even talk to a trusted person about it.

If, you are still in school, often times they have a counselor in the school, and it is completely confidential as well! :)

[Stronk Serb]

Comrade, if you have any problems, seek help from a counselor/psychologist. They are bound by law and oath (not 100% sure about the oath) not to tell a single soul.

[xmojox]

I'm sorry that happened to you. I'd urge you to talk to a professional.

[Harry Smith]

Despite what many people say if you go to a school counselor they have to tell the authorities if a crime has been committed, especially since your a minor

[MartyG]

Hi Drew,

I wonder sometimes what might have happened to me when I was very young. I have no memories of those years; I have to just hope that anyone in charge of my care did right by me.

You; on the other hand have memories from more recent times....when you were old enough to remember details. You don't say exactly how old you were when this was going on.

Just remember that if you live in the United States...and make such statements to a school psychologist or counsellor or pretty much anyone employed at the school.....that person is required by law to report your situation to Child Protective Services or the like. They have no choice.

It's a law meant to protect kids.....but in situations like yours it makes it hard to seek help from a professional.

I personally think that sometimes people make more of certain types of interactions between people than is warranted. But; only you know how what happened makes you feel. It is very complicated because it is inter-connected with your up-bringing regarding such matters.

I hope things work out. Maybe listening to more replies here on VT will help you sort out your feelings.

Marty

PS: One other thing....is Grandma currently granted access to other young family members? Might be time to approach that aspect of it if you feel that she's not acting appropriately.