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Appypollylogges
April 24th, 2013, 05:17 PM
How would some of you girls out there like to be asked out?

And yes I know that the way one girl might want to be asked out might vary with another girl (no frigging duh)

But yeah, I'd just like to have a few ideas to keep in mind :)

Anxiety
April 24th, 2013, 06:48 PM
my friend got her boyfriend when he randomly came up to her and said "You are now my girlfriend." which I thought was funny, but unless its painfully obvious, you don't know for sure if they want to date you and being so forward can make the rejection hurt more, at least to me.

All the guys I've dated are boring af and have just gone with "Will you go out with me?"
but theres not really anything wrong with going that route, even if it is over done.

Just be original, I can't really think of any other ways I've heard of girls being asked out...
oh but I saw on twitter a picture of a scrabble board that read "Will you marry me?" basically, this guy set up his girlfriend's favourite game - scrabble - and wrote the words on the board, which I thought was way cool! I'd die if someone asked me that way xD
I also like guys being straight forward about it because I always want things to be official. I don't feel like it would be fun to go call a guy my boyfriend when it turns out he didn't want to be official at all, and that he was just flirting.

BebeFleur.
April 24th, 2013, 06:56 PM
My opinion/scenarios:

{H=Him; M=Me}

1)
H: You know, I really like you.
M: Me too.
H: I wish we could spend more time together...
M: Me too.

Somewhat subtle, but this is sweet. :)

2)
M: (has been flirting)
H: Are you flirting? (teasing manner)
M: No! (blushing)
H: Oh, I am not attractive? (teasing manner)
M: No! I mean yes. Wait, I mean no. Just nevermind.

Well, not so much as asking out, but letting him know I like him. This can be switched vice versa.

I don't really want to be "asked out" just like, "Will you go out with me?" because that would be awkward for me... Especially if I needed to back out for an apparent reason.

Sorry if I was just blabbing on and on.

xXl0sth0peXx
April 24th, 2013, 07:14 PM
I'd rather them be straight up about it. Why beat around the bush about it? It's kinda pointless, and it means there's to many gray areas about whether he really likes me or doesn't or does he want to go out with me or whatnot.

I mean I think flowers or something cheep and inexpensive could be a nice way if you're to scared to be upfront about it, but I still think I'd rather be just 'asked out'

Jess
April 26th, 2013, 08:39 PM
I'd want him to get straight to the point, telling me he likes me or whatever and would like to date. >_>

workingatperfect
April 26th, 2013, 09:33 PM
I like straight to point stuff. "Do you wanna hang out some time? Just the two of us?" And then after a few dates, a simple "So are we like official?"

Ace of Spades
April 26th, 2013, 10:22 PM
Same as the three above me

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April 27th, 2013, 10:21 AM
i would like it if he walked up to me and stated 3 things he liked about me and then asked