Recent loss

[Synyster Shadows]

I was just about ready to tell my latest crush, who I know best of the 3 i've liked, how I felt about her. I was ready to tell her. then I crossed paths with an acquaintance of mine in the restroom. We chatted and then I told him how I liked this girl. He told me that he asked her to the upcoming school semiformal dance. I don't dance, am really introverted, and would never have anyone to go with, so i obviously won't be there.
Step back to yesterday. I told this girl I needed to talk to her in private. I told her to meet me near the music hallway at the end of the day and promised to tell her what I had to say there. She didn't show. Today, I reminded her and she didn't show.
Now that I know this guy asked her to the dance, I'm crushed. But i still want to tell her my feelings because I promised to tell her what was on my mind and I don't want to break that promise.
I'm not looking for advice, because I know you'll just say 'you have to move on.' I just needed to tell someone other than my best friend. He kept asking if I'm ok, which I'm obviously not. I'm angry at myself for being such a pussy, jealous of the guy for getting to my crush first, crushed at the news, and irritated at my friend who asked if I'm ok. I ended up losing my temper a bit at the friend.
Thanks for listening.

[Hank Hill]

If you don't wish to have advice, I won't offer it,

but I will say that I hope everything works out in the end and things go positively for you! Good luck with whatever goes down!

~Tyler

[workingatperfect]

You shouldn't be mad at yourself for anything. You tried to tell her and she blew you off. That doesn't make you a pussy in the slightest. I know you said you don't want advice, but honestly, not showing once is excusable - she could have just forgotten. But twice? She sounds like a bitch to me.

[Synyster Shadows]

But Melissa, she totally isn't a bitch. She is literally the sweetest girl in the whole grade. I'm pretty sure she has never said a mean thing to anyone at school. If she was a bitch, why the hell would I like her in the first place? I don't go for bitchy girls, I go for good, sweet ones.

[Left Now]

Secret is it maybe....How do you know she doesn't have any feelings for others?
Just think about it once.I agree with you she is not what our friend said(bitch) but you have to tell her if you really want to know if she likes any other guy.So my honestly and friendly offer to you is to tell her about it very soon...

[giofighter]

Hey man!I think you should talk to her in the very near future about your feelings.I've in this situation you are many times in my life i was always to shy to express my feelings to the girls i liked but one i decided to do otherwise,stop being shy and i said to myself,i literally said that lol, "For F**k shake,Gio,stop being such a big pussy and talk to her(when i say her i mean the crush of my life,i was in love with her for about 7 years).So,i did it,i spoke to her and she was having the same feelings for me at that time,after those 7 years :p Just go to her and say how you feel about her ;) Here in my country we have this old saying, "Being brave will save you" (i don't know if this make any sense to you,but i hope you will tell her about your feelings)

[workingatperfect]

But Melissa, she totally isn't a bitch. She is literally the sweetest girl in the whole grade. I'm pretty sure she has never said a mean thing to anyone at school. If she was a bitch, why the hell would I like her in the first place? I don't go for bitchy girls, I go for good, sweet ones.

Yeah, she's probably not a bitch, but it was rude to stand you up twice. And if she truly did forget, chances are she wasn't interested. I know that's not what you want to hear, but if she had been interested, she wouldn't have forgotten twice.

[Synyster Shadows]

Well, she's been wondering what I have on my mind and it seems like she really wants to know. This is day three and she didn't show. How much longer should I wait, if at all?

[workingatperfect]

Did you ever ask her why she blew you off? Also, why do you have to meet her? Write her a note, text her, walk with her to class and tell her then.

[Synyster Shadows]

I assumed she just forgot the first day, so I reminded her yesterday. As for the second question, I just feel like I should tell her in person and I don't want other people to be there and make it awkward. Besides, I don't have her phone number. Oh, and I forgot. One of my friends, who knows the guy really well, said that she told him she'd think about going with him. I may not be hopeless now.

[xmojox]

Just tell her. If you wait for your idea of perfect circumstances it may not happen. Tell her and ask her to the dance. It can be scary but you can do it.

[Synyster Shadows]

Update

I finally managed to get her alone and I told her how I felt about her. Major accomplishment for me because I've never had that much courage. I'm a coward :P
anyways, so I told her and she just digested that. Then she smiled and called me sweet. I couldn't get anymore than that because I had to get moving to my next class, one i don't have with her. Does it mean anything or would I just being getting false hopes?