Advice plz people :(

[Pete_Dude]

Well here goes, My family recently moved states for dad's job. So started at a new school this year and made friends with another guy who lives a few blocks away from me and is in my class also.
Long story short, a few months ago we started masturbating together after school at each others houses, it was only ever watching porn and unzip and take our penis's out and masturbated. Never even really taking a glimpse at each other, we'd finish, zip up and that was it.
But tonight we went further than just our normal routine and I'm worried that doing what we did means that I'm gay?
I sooo confused about it, and what I should say or do about what we did. I've read heaps of posts here saying it's fine, but I'm just freaking out and needing some advice or opinions from people..
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[RyanJF1]

You're probably just curious. Don't worry about labeling yourself yet.

[Piccolos]

just curious, no problem! go for it and enjoy

[johnsmith1]

There's nothing wrong in changing things around, as it keeps things interesting. Don't worry on a "label", as long as you are comfortable in what you are both doing. If you are uncomfortable at doing anything at any time, just stop.

[Pete_Dude]

There's nothing wrong in changing things around, as it keeps things interesting. Don't worry on a "label", as long as you are comfortable in what you are both doing. If you are uncomfortable at doing anything at any time, just stop.

We were both comfortable with it once we got past the first tiny bit of awkwardness. After reading others posts I feel more ok about what we did, and that we're not alone in doing this sorta stuff. I just wonder if my mates feeling the same way like me? Like when I see him tomorrow what do say about it?????

[johnsmith1]

We were both comfortable with it once we got past the first tiny bit of awkwardness. After reading others posts I feel more ok about what we did, and that we're not alone in doing this sorta stuff. I just wonder if my mates feeling the same way like me? Like when I see him tomorrow what do say about it?????

You never know - he might be happy enough. Ask if he enjoed it (which given you've had no indication otherwise), he would sound OK. If you take it easy, and don't force it too much, and are both open with each other, the friendship should continue with however you both want to take it. It sounds like you have a pretty good friendship

Good luck tomorrow.

[Pete_Dude]

You never know - he might be happy enough. Ask if he enjoed it (which given you've had no indication otherwise), he would sound OK. If you take it easy, and don't force it too much, and are both open with each other, the friendship should continue with however you both want to take it. It sounds like you have a pretty good friendship

Good luck tomorrow.

So you think the straight up approach is the best way to go about it? and just ask him like "hey bout last night dude.. You kewl wit what we did?" And if he say's yes then just go from there?
And if he says no then leave it as a one off thing that happened between us???

[johnsmith1]

So you think the straight up approach is the best way to go about it? and just ask him like "hey bout last night dude.. You kewl wit what we did?" And if he say's yes then just go from there?
And if he says no then leave it as a one off thing that happened between us???

Yes - just go for it (without being too over the top). If your friendship is strong enough, then yes the worst that should happen, is nothing. And if the answer is yes, take it from there.

[Pete_Dude]

Yes - just go for it (without being too over the top). If your friendship is strong enough, then yes the worst that should happen, is nothing. And if the answer is yes, take it from there.

I'm 99.9% sure the answer will be yes and he hasn't freaked out about it at all probably, unlike me.

But for me it was a huge leap from what we were doing to, what we did together. Like once the nerves settled i really enjoyed it and had fun. From other posts here it seems normal what we did together, and nearly everyone's tried it or does it.

I am worried about getting caught doing it though, what our parents would say or do. Like i don't care about them busting me jacking off cos there constantly just barging into my room and even the bathroom. But the two of us together, getting busted seems way risky. Even though it felt great.

[johnsmith1]

I'm 99.9% sure the answer will be yes and he hasn't freaked out about it at all probably, unlike me.

But for me it was a huge leap from what we were doing to, what we did together. Like once the nerves settled i really enjoyed it and had fun. From other posts here it seems normal what we did together, and nearly everyone's tried it or does it.

I am worried about getting caught doing it though, what our parents would say or do. Like i don't care about them busting me jacking off cos there constantly just barging into my room and even the bathroom. But the two of us together, getting busted seems way risky. Even though it felt great.

Yes being caught is always an issue. Timing it at either house when one set of parents are out, or having a lock on the bedroom door, or having a hideout )somewhere more private to go to). Just be aware of your suroundings.

[Pete_Dude]

Yea i'm pissed cos before we moved i had the ultimate hideout, so that's gone now along with a good stash too. :(

I'm now starting to feel more confident about what we both did together after chatting with you John and also reading other peoples posts about there experiences. Like i'm not paranoid to say what we did if i'm asked, i feel like "hey it was fun & yea we'll do it again"

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Does it really matter?

[Jack230]

You are just very curious but that doesnt mean anything specific. Just watch out that you won't go too far.

[AbernathyElkwood]

You may have just been experimenting. Don't stress~ There may not be any way of knowing if you were just curious or actually felt something there, but it'll just take time for you to figure it out~ Good luck<33