Should we wait to have sex?

[The LOLer]

Ok I'm 14and I'm aware that some people my age are having sex. Shouldn't we wait till we fully mature to have sex? I'm not talking about just oral sex, but going all the way.

[Left Now]

Well i think the first sex must be with the marriage and after 18 of a boy...But 14 is a little weird.You are not even old enough to have sex...Better for you to wait...

[The LOLer]

Well i think the first sex must be with the marriage and after 18 of a boy...But 14 is a little weird.You are not even old enough to have sex...Better for you to wait...

Agreed

[Human]

I personally think that you should do it whatever age you think is right and with someone you love.

[Ace of Spades]

I agree with Human. I would also suggest that before you have sex, you should have a good understanding of what you are doing, what sex is, and have a good understanding the potential risks/consequences involved as well as an idea of what you are and are not comfortable with.

[Hyper]

I agree with Human. I would also suggest that before you have sex, you should have a good understanding of what you are doing, what sex is, and have a good understanding the potential risks/consequences involved as well as an idea of what you are and are not comfortable with.

And that doesn't happen at whatever age a teenager thinks they are in love with someone.

But regardless people are different in how they develop mentally and physically so the ''right'' age is different for everyone.

Of course ''right'' is subjective to personal reasoning... I think right should mean a certain level of physical development and mental. But then again making mistakes or just well experiencing things is also a part of mental development.

[randomnessqueen]

yes, you should wait to have sex.
the age people are having sex is getting younger and younger, and sex is losing any meaning, and is just becoming a mechanical release to do with just anyone.
also, for those who actually keep some semblence of meaning, will then regret the things they did when they were younger.
at the least, you need to wait until you are mature enough to make that kind of decision.

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