confused

[bbychop]

Remember how like last week my boyfriend forced me to break up with my girlfriend because he didn't approve of it? Look at this:

dj_hunter_2000 (12:26:36 AM): uhm
dj_hunter_2000 (12:26:38 AM): hunny
dj_hunter_2000 (12:26:41 AM): uhm
dj_hunter_2000 (12:26:42 AM): chris
dj_hunter_2000 (12:26:45 AM): just asked me out
dj_hunter_2000 (12:26:46 AM): uhm
dj_hunter_2000 (12:26:49 AM): whoa
hast_mich_engel (12:26:53 AM): do what you want
dj_hunter_2000 (12:27:00 AM): no
dj_hunter_2000 (12:27:06 AM): you tell me what to do for once
hast_mich_engel (12:27:30 AM): i don't want you to, cuz i couldn't stay with lindz but ya know, it's up to you not me
dj_hunter_2000 (12:28:01 AM): ok
hast_mich_engel (12:28:06 AM): so do what you want
dj_hunter_2000 (12:33:07 AM): what
hast_mich_engel (12:33:18 AM): i don't know
hast_mich_engel (12:34:03 AM): anyways, i should go
dj_hunter_2000 (12:34:10 AM): why
hast_mich_engel (12:34:23 AM): i don't know just i think you want me to
dj_hunter_2000 (12:34:30 AM): no i dont
hast_mich_engel (12:34:46 AM): ok then SPEAK
dj_hunter_2000 (12:34:51 AM): I LOVE YOU

...then....

hast_mich_engel (1:01:33 AM): be honest, do you still like him?
dj_hunter_2000 (1:01:41 AM): yes ill admit it
hast_mich_engel (1:01:50 AM): ok
dj_hunter_2000 (1:02:01 AM): does that worry you
hast_mich_engel (1:02:07 AM): kind of
dj_hunter_2000 (1:02:14 AM): why
hast_mich_engel (1:02:43 AM): cuz i will start thinking you like him more than me and that you would rather be with him
dj_hunter_2000 (1:02:53 AM): ugh

((if you haven't figured it out hast_mich_engel is me and dj_hunter_2000 is my boyfriend))

so...what am i supposed to do? let him be with chris? i told him it's all up to him but he is making it difficult. and i don't get it... it's ok for him to date a person of the same sex but it isn't for me? ugh.

[Dante]

that sucks, you should put ur foot down, if he wants to date this guy, then you should date this girl, it isnt fair.

[Elokyn]

just break up with him and let him do what he wants...that way you can be with the chick..he can be with the dude and it's all settled...relationships are for 2 people...not 3 or 4

[bbychop]

Me and my ex gf are fighting and his ex bf ((chris)) wants us to be happy together and doesn't want to come between us.

[Elokyn]

I'm just saying from a 3rd persons perspective it doesnt look like it's gonna last very long, but I don't know everything so...

[BeautyFromPain]

this is all very confusing to me..is it right for you to have both a girlfriend and a boyfriend at the same time? is that not like cheating??