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lyriclover
April 24th, 2013, 02:29 AM
Did anyone else have problems being out and changing for gym? I know when I came out people would hide from me and start rumors that I was staring at them. Even the teacher would give me dirty looks when I walked in. I'm not the only not straight girl in my gym class and they all were changed every day, but none of them ever were in the locker room. I started hanging out with them because no one else would talk to me and found out they all changed in the bathroom across from the gym. I started changing with them and its awesome. We all stare and no one cares. Anyone else have a situation like this?

Pierce
April 24th, 2013, 03:05 PM
No, I'm closeted and nobody thinks I'm gay. I didn't think there was homophobia in my school because there are a lot of gay people in my school and people are cool with them for the most part. One day I was sitting next to 2 guys in gym and I overheard them talking shit about an extremely feminine acting boy in our class. They were saying this faggot is changing with us, thats like me changing in the girls locker room. When he changes, he changes quickly and leaves. Sorry for all my gramatical and spelling errors, I'm typing this on my phone.

Pittsburgh
September 2nd, 2013, 11:12 AM
The locker room is tough for guys too. you never know when things get a mind of there own and pop up. just sayin

Mynick
September 2nd, 2013, 11:50 AM
Not really, but again we are all straight. Staring is normal lol, we do it and stuff, even fool around with others clothes.

PinkFloyd
September 2nd, 2013, 11:53 AM
From what I've heard, staring is normal. Your class mates have it all wrong.

ksdnfkfr
September 2nd, 2013, 12:08 PM
This is one of many reasons why I'm not coming out until I'm in college. Even though I'm a pretty withdrawn person, I really enjoy locker room time, because it's all so free spirited.

Magnus Bane
September 2nd, 2013, 02:05 PM
I am out and have the thing happening the best thing is to ignore it. Hopefully it will stop and if it doesn't go talk to your school counselor. Best of luck!!

Tarannosaurus
September 2nd, 2013, 04:56 PM
I was out to most of the girls in my class last year (there was only eight) a few started changing in the shower cubicles instead but most were fine. First week back and new class this year though, so I'll see how that pans out, hopefully won't be too much of a problem there's just one or two girls in my new class that will act stupid about it. A gay guy in my class 'forgot' his sports gear for our first P.E. class so he might be having some problems in the changing room too.

Abyssal Echo
September 2nd, 2013, 05:13 PM
Nope. I'm out and nobody says anything to me anymore.

justin 13
September 2nd, 2013, 07:25 PM
I don't need to change my clothes in the locker room of my school nor take a showers.

Suave
September 2nd, 2013, 08:12 PM
I'm straight and I have to say you have a pretty fucked up school. I mean even the teachers????:eek: But no I don't have the same problem or friend with the same problem. I'm pretty good friends with a gay guy and no one cares if he's gay. There are only the select few that care. The best thing I can say is fuck'em the friend have now nice to you so stay friend with them. People may eventually get over with it.

Victory
September 2nd, 2013, 08:51 PM
Back when I was in high school, all the girls stared at each other in the showers, lol. Most of them were straight, some were bi but mostly bi-curious. It wasn't like an awkward thing either... Some would compliment someone else on their breasts, or butt, or whatever. There was a time when rumors got out about me being a lesbian and that made things weird in the showers, but everyone soon forgot about it because it was high school. I'll admit though, I think I had a better time than they did in the showers, lol.... CREEPER ALERT x_x

Special K
September 3rd, 2013, 11:10 AM
Not at all. But for girls it's a lot easier I guess. We can be around each other naked.

Harley Quinn
September 3rd, 2013, 11:18 AM
This was bumped from April. :locked: