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April 23rd, 2013, 08:23 PM
Hey VT, it's been a long time running since I've been here, but I'm in an interesting little situation and none of my friends seem to know what to do, so here's the rundown.
Okay, well... So recently my mom has been having a bit of a lack of trust for me. Earlier this week (this is done with but it relates to what hapened today) I cant remember what it was but I was saying something and she couldn't hear me. I repeated myself about ten times before deciding that it wasn't important enough to go on with. When I finally remember what I said and told her (because she wasnt going to take me to my MMA class if I didnt, eventually she decided) I told her. She was like "oh" and I told her that she should have trusted me that it wasnt that important. At that point she told me to get out of the car, and I didn't think she was serious. Eventually said "get out of the fucking car!" and I left. She and I eventually apologized.
More recently I asked if I could order a jacket. She said to me, and I quote the text, "ok we can get a 50 card but ur showing me [the jacket] b4 u order it" Earlier in the year, before both incidents, she was freaking about a different jacket I wanted. I told her it wasn't the same one, and she said okay but I'm looking at it first. I said "I would like to refer to our earleir conversation about trust," because I felt offended she lacked that trust.
Now after that in the car there was a period she was yelling at me while I was telling her that I wanted her to not be so disrespectful and ask instead of demand I show her, and that I would have gladly shown her (which I also said I would anyway) I would have gladly shown her if she just asked. She yelled and said "I don't have to be nice. I dont have to respect you. You're my son!" and after more yelling she threatened to take me out of the MMA class and take 50$ from me. Her lack of trust really hurts me and I don't think she understands.
Okay, well... So recently my mom has been having a bit of a lack of trust for me. Earlier this week (this is done with but it relates to what hapened today) I cant remember what it was but I was saying something and she couldn't hear me. I repeated myself about ten times before deciding that it wasn't important enough to go on with. When I finally remember what I said and told her (because she wasnt going to take me to my MMA class if I didnt, eventually she decided) I told her. She was like "oh" and I told her that she should have trusted me that it wasnt that important. At that point she told me to get out of the car, and I didn't think she was serious. Eventually said "get out of the fucking car!" and I left. She and I eventually apologized.
More recently I asked if I could order a jacket. She said to me, and I quote the text, "ok we can get a 50 card but ur showing me [the jacket] b4 u order it" Earlier in the year, before both incidents, she was freaking about a different jacket I wanted. I told her it wasn't the same one, and she said okay but I'm looking at it first. I said "I would like to refer to our earleir conversation about trust," because I felt offended she lacked that trust.
Now after that in the car there was a period she was yelling at me while I was telling her that I wanted her to not be so disrespectful and ask instead of demand I show her, and that I would have gladly shown her (which I also said I would anyway) I would have gladly shown her if she just asked. She yelled and said "I don't have to be nice. I dont have to respect you. You're my son!" and after more yelling she threatened to take me out of the MMA class and take 50$ from me. Her lack of trust really hurts me and I don't think she understands.