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Synyster Shadows
April 23rd, 2013, 02:57 PM
Too often, i feel ppl only care for looks. I want the truth, of you guys, anyways.

Left Now
April 23rd, 2013, 03:10 PM
Personality at all.

Ruxaes
April 23rd, 2013, 03:20 PM
Well looks is what initiates it when its in random places. But i have thought someone was okay looking but as i got to know them they became very beautiful. Honestly personality is the most important because it really does change the way i think about women both positive and negative :P
EDIT: Also most my relationships started out as when i first met them i didnt think they were AMAZINGLY beautiful or anything or was like "oh dang she is hot" or whatever. It wasnt until i got to know them that made be like "DAMM" and just thought they were drop dead gorgeous. Another thing is its hard for me to talk or start getting to know someone i do think is already very very beautiful. idk :P haah

workingatperfect
April 23rd, 2013, 03:29 PM
Honestly, they're both important. You can't spend your time with someone you find annoying or rude or whatever. But the sexual and even just intimate aspects of your relationship can severely suffer if you don't find them attractive, which can cause so many other problems. So yeah, I look for both. But emotional connection often makes the person more attractive for me.

believable
April 23rd, 2013, 07:49 PM
I have a crush on a girl right now based on her personality much more than her looks. When I first met her, I didn't have a crush on her since I was much more looking for girls with looks instead of personality. Her personality has made her a much more attractive and pretty girl in my eyes.

Synyster Shadows
April 23rd, 2013, 08:04 PM
So far, these results are relieving. I know I'm stereotyping, but I can't help it. People just seem to not care for personality as much and it makes me feel like society is crumbling.

BebeFleur.
April 23rd, 2013, 08:18 PM
I try for both. I don't want that "tall, dark, and handsome" look. I prefer the "cute, sexy, clean" look. I want someone clean and nicely put together, but I don't care about skin, hair, eyes, etc.

Personality, I love someone smart. Not someone who can only talk about nerdy stuff, but someone smart, someone I can have a meaningful, intelligent conversation with. I like someone sweet and caring.

Elysium
April 23rd, 2013, 08:19 PM
Try for both, ideally, but I'm more attracted to personality than looks. When a person has a good personality, their looks become more appealing (if they weren't so much already).

Abyssal Echo
April 23rd, 2013, 08:22 PM
Ideally I try for both. but its personality thats important to me

clueless_one
April 23rd, 2013, 08:31 PM
I go for personality. Only if i'm lucky i'm go for both.

Moai
April 23rd, 2013, 09:20 PM
Both.

Of course I would only date someone that I got along with well and had a good personality, but I'd have to be attracted to them too.

teen.jpg
April 23rd, 2013, 10:32 PM
Personality. Looks is just extra credit.

hhhhhnhnjhnj
April 23rd, 2013, 10:34 PM
It's all about looks, no that's not my belief but it's the natural belief of man-kind...you see with us being animals and whatnot, we instinctively look for physically superior mates when selecting...we can't help it...that's why the uglies like me get ignored...

xXl0sth0peXx
April 23rd, 2013, 10:34 PM
Personality. Looks is just extra credit.

I agree with this, nicely said.

Croconaw
May 20th, 2013, 05:10 PM
I look for personality. The appearance shouldn't matter.

Jess
May 20th, 2013, 06:00 PM
Both, though personality is a bit more important.

LouBerry
May 20th, 2013, 06:08 PM
I demand both. My boyfriend is H-A-W--T and he has a kickass personality. I shoot high, but hey, I feel like I deserve it.

Twilly F. Sniper
May 20th, 2013, 07:29 PM
Personality MAINLY. Not very important how they look, but to me as long as they look acceptable and human, that's covered.

Stephan
May 20th, 2013, 09:18 PM
Both. But more personality than looks.

HockeyLovesMe
May 21st, 2013, 11:48 AM
for me its both :)