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Person_Of_Interest
April 21st, 2013, 10:05 PM
I really want to talk about this. Recently my dad and I have been arguing more and more. Than we used to and I can sense myself pushing farther away from him and starting to want to stop talking to him and deny the right of being my father for one thing: I didn't have thje relationship with him that all the little kids I see now do. :( :(:( :( :(

I don't know what to do. I'm freaked out that I will lose my connection with dad entirely and get my life made worse. Now all I can think of when I see a kid having fun with his dad is how ashamed I am of myself for not having a relationship with my dad like all these kids I see. I just want to die and end all this shame and hatred of myself. I hate myself just by looking at all these kids I see enjoying themselves with there father and doing the thing that I could only dream of now, but its like a second nature to them. I've now lost all the time that I could even have this relationship with my father, and I'm more depressed and want to self harm than ever before.

jayyy-lmao
April 22nd, 2013, 01:09 PM
I really want to talk about this. Recently my dad and I have been arguing more and more. Than we used to and I can sense myself pushing farther away from him and starting to want to stop talking to him and deny the right of being my father for one thing: I didn't have thje relationship with him that all the little kids I see now do. :( :(:( :( :(

I don't know what to do. I'm freaked out that I will lose my connection with dad entirely and get my life made worse. Now all I can think of when I see a kid having fun with his dad is how ashamed I am of myself for not having a relationship with my dad like all these kids I see. I just want to die and end all this shame and hatred of myself. I hate myself just by looking at all these kids I see enjoying themselves with there father and doing the thing that I could only dream of now, but its like a second nature to them. I've now lost all the time that I could even have this relationship with my father, and I'm more depressed and want to self harm than ever before.

Talk to him. Be honest with him. Does he know about self harm? Cos you should tell him. You just need to talk. :)