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Cognizant
April 21st, 2013, 05:23 PM
There's this guy I met a few days ago. Unlike other times where I found someone cute but didn't really know, we "clicked" more than usual.
But there's a few loopholes. My friend decided to tell him that I liked him (because I already knew he was gay), and he's already in a relationship.

I feel horrible for flirting with him, but he's really the only one I've "clicked" with (I still suffer to make conversation at times but again, it's not as big of a struggle).

I don't know what to do. I don't want to give up but at the same time, is it worth waiting for? I can see myself dating him one day, but I don't know what to do or say. Should I put my flirting aside, or just keep the conversations flowing and meeting up with him sometime?

I have no clue what to do.

Appypollylogges
April 24th, 2013, 08:02 PM
Well, since he's already in a relationship, I'm not sure if it would be such a good idea to pursue him right now. Maybe just wait and see if the relationship he's in now doesn't work out.
And yes I know, waiting is extremely hard to do, but who knows, it could be worth it.
Hope things work out :)

Foamy
April 24th, 2013, 09:30 PM
Patty, my advice is to wait it out. I would wait until you realize that his relationship is a strong one. You don't mention much about it so I'm assuming that it's recently started. Give it another week or three and if it seems like his relationship is getting rocky, swoop in and nab him.