Interested in the hottest guy at my entire school

[Butterfly_96]

There is an 18-year-old guy at my school who's insanely good-looking and cute, to the point that I find myself pretty much staring at him whenever I see him.
The problem is, of course, that he is really popular and there's always a couple girls flirting with him and spending time with him.
I don't know how I should approach him, because he always hears how attractive he is and the girls he seems to be very aware of it as well - he can randomly hold his arms around any of the girls he is with, hands on her belly and everything, and that girl is always completely fine with it.
Don't know why he does that, but maybe just because he knows he can.

Anyway, I have managed to look into his eyes a couple times and given him a very shy smile, but I always look away very quickly and he doesn't really care very much after that.
Is there any somewhat easy why for me to let him understand that I am interested in him?
I have heard that I am very cute from lots of guys before, but this guy hardly checks me out at all, so this is a bit discouraging.

[itcouldbeworse]

I think the easiest way is to get him alone to try to talk to him like if u have any classes with him or see him anywhere else other than school, or maybe slip a note or something into his locker asking him to hangout. Even though he should be the one who makes the first move doesn't mean you can't. I woul'nt be too straightforward about howyou feel but ask him if he wants to hang out sometime and possibly give him your number. If he says yes great if he says hes busy try again some other time, and if he says no, well then its not meant to be and you can find someone else out there who deserves you.

[Butterfly_96]

I think the easiest way is to get him alone to try to talk to him like if u have any classes with him or see him anywhere else other than school, or maybe slip a note or something into his locker asking him to hangout. Even though he should be the one who makes the first move doesn't mean you can't. I woul'nt be too straightforward about howyou feel but ask him if he wants to hang out sometime and possibly give him your number. If he says yes great if he says hes busy try again some other time, and if he says no, well then its not meant to be and you can find someone else out there who deserves you.
Thank you, yes I will probably have to make a move, but I am sooo shy of him. :P

Just wondering something - isn't it a rather big chance that some of those girls have asked him out on some occasions before?
Because they really flirt a lot with him and he also sometimes tell them that he thinks they are hot and attractive, so it seems like I've got to be quick with him.
One of them was once concerned about her clothes she was wearing that day and the guy just said "girl, you are attractive all over". :what:

[itcouldbeworse]

sorry for taking so long to reply to you but I feel they might have but a lot girls don't have the guts to make the move even if they are the ones taking the initiative to flirt. So who knows? maybe they haven't. So have you tried asking him or talking to him or anything since you first posted??

[BebeFleur.]

Do you actually know this guy? Though he knows he may be able to get any girl, he may not want to. Many people want to know the person before beginning a relationship. So first, you should just talk to him. Don't go right up to him randomly and be like "OMG you are so hot! Wanna go out!?". Make friends with him first, and then if then you still like him and he seems interested, then start to make your move.

[dontfiguremeout]

Well if you said that he always have girls around him, then they all probably are trying to date him. If you really want him, you need to show him you are different from all the other girls. You actually want a relationship with him, not just because of his looks. Also be yourself too! Don't pretend your someone else. But yeah, show him why you really like him that will make you stand out against all the other girls!

[Butterfly_96]

Um, I was at the same party him a couple days ago, and at one point he came up slightly intoxicated and gave me a bunch of really surprising compliments.
He told me straight out that he knew what I was feeling for him, and that he thought I was cute and that I had beautiful eyes, pretty breasts and wonderful legs.
Then he rested his eyes on my breasts for a couple seconds and told me sweetly "they really are pretty", then put his hand on my shoulder and smiled at me and told me that I was "a really pretty girl".
Then he suddenly had to leave.

I don't know how I should respond, I pretty much just blushed and thanked him several times, and I felt dizzy.
It was such a blunt kind of compliment, but I don't know how I should take it.
Is he just teasing me or should I take this as a positive sign?
It was really surprising.
If he is so courageous that he can say something like that without hesitating and clearly found me attractive, then why didn't he just kiss me right away?

[itcouldbeworse]

Since he was slightly intoxicated I wouldn't get your hopes up to high but if he continues to talk to you after that then things might be lightening up for you

[Butterfly_96]

Yes, I hope so.
I will see him again on Monday, so I will try to ask him if we can do something together then.

But how was I supposed to react when he walked up to me and spoke to me like that?
Normally I would feel prety uncomfortable if a guy commented on my breasts and my legs like that, but since he said it I was completely fine with it but all I could do was to stand there and thank him and look red.

[APhkinPanda]

I reeeaaally don't want to be the douche here and ruin your hopes. But this is just MY opinion you can take this as advice or as nothing has ever happened.

How I see him, I see him like a player. He obviously knows that a lot of girls like him. He even puts his hands where if a normal guy were to try and do. They probably get slapped and be suspended. I warn you of him. Just because he compliments you. Doesn't mean he was trying to be nice. It could all just be a plan to get in your pants. Keep us posted on what you decide and what he tries. Ill be here on VT.

[midnightstar]

I might be late to the party
But I completely agree APhkinPanda

The way I see it, he already knows your head over heels for him and from the interaction at the party he just seems like wants to get in your pants. If you really like a girl for her you dont walk up to her tell her she has pretty breasts then stare at them.

Just be careful

[Butterfly_96]

Well, he wasn't really staring at them, he was just looking for a few seconds and told me politely that he thought they were pretty, then looked into my eyes and said I was cute.
I really didn't mind, I love when I feel like he's checking me out, I welcome it. :P

I'm just afraid he might dump me very early just because so many girls are so into him.
One of my friends knows him a little and she says he has been kissing intimately with girls at different parties and then followed them home almost every weekend evening for 5 years, so if that's true then he might have had sex with more than 500 girls. :what:

[Lofiel]

Well, he wasn't really staring at them, he was just looking for a few seconds and told me politely that he thought they were pretty, then looked into my eyes and said I was cute.
I really didn't mind, I love when I feel like he's checking me out, I welcome it. :P

I'm just afraid he might dump me very early just because so many girls are so into him.
One of my friends knows him a little and she says he has been kissing intimately with girls at different parties and then followed them home almost every weekend evening for 5 years, so if that's true then he might have had sex with more than 500 girls. :what: If you want to be another girl who lets him act like a douche because he's hot, go ahead. He'll be laughing at you with his buddies, if he already hasn't over the breast comment.

[Croconaw]

First of all, there is no 'hottest guy in school'. It all depends on one's perspective. Second, if he is that much of a douchebag, then you deserve better. You should never go out with someone simply because they're hot. You are capable of finding someone better than that.

[Horatio Nelson]

First of all, there is no 'hottest guy in school'. It all depends on one's perspective. Second, if he is that much of a douchebag, then you deserve better. You should never go out with someone simply because they're hot. You are capable of finding someone better than that.

I second this strongly.

[AzuPazu]

I'm sorry girl, but I'm pretty much following those others here.
Open up your eyes and see what he's doing.
You don't want him to take you for granted or do you?

[Synyster Shadows]

Do not try to get this guy. He sounds like a douche, an asshole, a pervert, and a player all in one. I don't care if you think he's the hottest guy in school. You deserve a better guy that loves you for you.