Does he like me? Am I gay?

[Ionizedhelix123]

I am a 13 year old guy and pretty curious about other guys more than girls. So anyway there is this guy at my school and he is hot, I mean really attractive guy and really nice. Me and him are buddy's and it seems like he likes me and I really like him and wish we could be more than what we are now because he always seems to tune other people out and just pay attention to me when we are together and I always look over and see him looking intently at me but makes eye contact and continues working and smiles, he smiles at me a lot and he has these georgeous lips that are really full and his eyes are deep black and when we talk he always looks right into my eyes and I feel like he knows that I like him. When we stand or walk in the halls he tries to walk really close to me so we at least touch shoulders he's skinny dark skinned with jet black choppy hair and a little shorter than me about 5'4" I really like him and would love to have a sexual encounter with him but I have not had one before and don't know how to go about it he insists that I sit beside him at lunch not even across the table but right beside him I some times let my knee relax and touch his and he does not seem to recoil but instead reach his knee out towards mine or I'll rest my srm against his and he will smile at me when no one is looking it has gone on like this for a while now and I feel like I am trapped what should I do??? And please no negative or discouraging comments!!! Thank you

[xAlfredo]

Aww this is so cute. I look at guys the same way. Personally, I think you are too young to have any sexual relation with the guy besides kissing.. But you can do what you want to do. It's your life. What you described in your paragraph seemed like flirting. I think he is attracted to you. There is this guy that works at this place I go to alot and he has black choppy hair that goes across his face and he has these gorgeous blue eyes with lips that look so soft and he has the hottest voice and he is the perfect height and ugh <3 I don't think he's gay though. But the guy you're describing seems like he has an attraction to you and I say go for it. :D

[MXracer95]

BE CAREFUL...I think you should take into consideration that you're only 13 years old and therefore, you have no CLUE what you want in this kind of regard...wait about another 6 months when hormones really start to hit you...every guy went through this kind of curiosity at your age group, it's not about love or sexual attraction or any of that, it's about competition, curiosity and generally being naive about things...I doubt that you're gay...at 13 years-old you'd be in about 7th or 8th Grade, right? Yeah...you just need to be REALLY CAREFUL that he isn't setting you up to make fun of you on a really big level...happened to me...didn't get better until the kid tried to attack me & I left him with a broken nose, a dislocated shoulder, and I would've left him unconscious if we didn't get ripped apart by high school seniors (because the high school I went to was grades 7-12 & that school's not like that anymore)

[Tristin.]

hey hun, by the sounds of it you are experiencing a crush and, probably your first crush on the same sex. Now, as you are only 13, i would advise against a 'sexual encounter', however, maybe you could broach the subject of liking him in a subtle manner. Or, see where things go? x good luck xo

[johnsmith1]

There is no need to go too far too fast. However, if you want, spend more time with him. Invite him over to play games. See if it develops in to a sleepover. Dont go too far too fast to ruin your relationship and enjoy your time togetherr.

[Ionizedhelix123]

Thanks you guys that's awesome and really helpful and I don't really want a sexual encounter I could just kiss him and be fine but I think I am going to get to know him a lot better and maybe invite him over and see where it goes from there!!! Thanks

[RyanJF1]

Aww, this is adorable. :')

Does he know you are curious? Or do you make it obvious enough he could probably guess that? If I was in this situation, I would personally prefer to keep him as a friend and not rush things until you are out of the closet or until he knows. This will help prevent awkward situations if he is straight. You guys seem to be flirting back and forth though.

I would hold off on the sexual activities. You are a little too young to be engaging in such. Don't rush things, and you should be fine.

Good luck!