View Full Version : Family breakdown!
Kuurachan
April 20th, 2013, 06:37 PM
Ok, so last night I heard fighting downstairs, which was my collage age sister and my mom and dad( he is pretty empty minded, so he doesn't really have much to offer to the thing) this morning( haha, yeah right, I slept till 2:00 in the afternoon) I saw my dad sleeping on our couch downstairs and my mom had locked herself in their room. I went back upstairs for a few hours, then at about 3:30 or so I saw my take her car and drive off. An hour or two ago, I went back downstairs and it looks like my dad doesn't know what's wrong with my mom. My Dad and collage age sister also were talking on our porch, my sister being REALLY loud, so I opened the window and in a bit she slammed the door possibly the hardest I had ever heard it slam, sending a few things falling to the ground, then running upstairs and slamming her room door( equally loud) since then she's been locked in there. My mom left a note saying stuff like " I'm useless, nobody loves me, sale our trailer, I can't love anybody" , stuff like that, which is extremely out of character for her. I'm 13 and my other sister is a year or two older, who thankfully is ok( as much as can be possible, considering the circumstances) my mom never talks like that, and in the note she talked like a teen high on drugs. She doesn't drink and we are Christians, but at the moment our church is turning into some stupid, hip place, run by an immoral family. I get that this is hard for her, but I'm facing some serious stuff right now. I am ok since I've had to deal with much fighting downstairs, but my mom has never gone this far. Anybody know what I should do( even though I probably can't do anything) just having this out is nice, so thanks for reading <:)
Cicero
April 20th, 2013, 06:44 PM
Ok, so last night I heard fighting downstairs, which was my collage age sister and my mom and dad( he is pretty empty minded, so he doesn't really have much to offer to the thing) this morning( haha, yeah right, I slept till 2:00 in the afternoon) I saw my dad sleeping on our couch downstairs and my mom had locked herself in their room. I went back upstairs for a few hours, then at about 3:30 or so I saw my take her car and drive off. An hour or two ago, I went back downstairs and it looks like my dad doesn't know what's wrong with my mom. My Dad and collage age sister also were talking on our porch, my sister being REALLY loud, so I opened the window and in a bit she slammed the door possibly the hardest I had ever heard it slam, sending a few things falling to the ground, then running upstairs and slamming her room door( equally loud) since then she's been locked in there. My mom left a note saying stuff like " I'm useless, nobody loves me, sale our trailer, I can't love anybody" , stuff like that, which is extremely out of character for her. I'm 13 and my other sister is a year or two older, who thankfully is ok( as much as can be possible, considering the circumstances) my mom never talks like that, and in the note she talked like a teen high on drugs. She doesn't drink and we are Christians, but at the moment our church is turning into some stupid, hip place, run by an immoral family. I get that this is hard for her, but I'm facing some serious stuff right now. I am ok since I've had to deal with much fighting downstairs, but my mom has never gone this far. Anybody know what I should do( even though I probably can't do anything) just having this out is nice, so thanks for reading <:)
There's nothing you can do. your mom might be battling depression or there is a bump in their marriage that isn't going over to we'll.
Kuurachan
April 21st, 2013, 08:46 PM
Well...that didn't help much >B(
But in any case, thankfully we got everything sorted out and we are ok now( she just needed some time alone) so if there is any way to close this thread, please do.
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